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Nice Guys CAN Finish First

One question we get often here at the Booty Doctors is, “Why do women say they want a nice guy, but then dump me for a bad boy?” I came up with a list of things a man can do, nice guy or not, to finish first. 1. Act confident.

Loneliness is my passion.

Loneliness is my passion.

Loneliness is my food,loneliness is juice,loneliness is my fun,loneliness is my home;my real home.That's mean Cemetery,my only home;because nobody have home in this world,right there loneliness is my bed in this real home.

Finding LOVE Underneath everything.

Finding LOVE Underneath everything.

About four years ago, when i was a freshman in high school, I moved to a new school in the middle of the year. It was a small private school, so, of course, I was something new and interesting to everyone. There were two boys in particular who stated their little crushes. Coincidentally, they were best friends. I proceded to pursue the younger, but more attractive, or at least I thought at the time. This immature grammar school crush, however, never evolved into anything. Over the course of the next four years we became close friends, and still are to this day. Going back to freshman year, as time went on, I began to see the amazing person the other guy had been. For the next couple years, our friendship grew tremendously. I always had so much fun with him. When I was with him, there was an amazing smile glued to my face, and when something was wrong, he knew it automatically.

I like to try new thing's.

I like to try new thing's.

My name is Paul Gerard Mazzola and I'm a cute person and still hoping foe a woman to have in my life she can be in her 30's or 40's see I'm 41 and I have black hair and brown eye's and I'm 5.6 and I go to school so I can do some new thing's for me get back to me at Paulgmazzola68@msn.com I like you do be nice to me I have been put down so many time's by girl's. See some girl think that I'm going to run for them or some thing like that no way I'm cool and I know how to act with Girl's it's just that I'm she with girl they put to much make up on like lip stick or some like that. I'm trying to be open to you has I can don't unlike me you don't know me and you have no right to tell me of I'm good or not I'm what I'm and that is the way it is I'm sorry ffor being to bad to you it's how I feel with some people and people just see my E-mail and they just run away from me and I don't here from them again don't do that to me I'm very up set with my feeling's get ouched. Don't say your sorry that you can't be friend's with me I have been put down so many time I know now how girl's think and how much then need some one in there life. Girl's come on my to sterog and I like to just be slow in a friendship. The kissing on the lip's is good but when you don't know when it's going to be then I can get shy and I know when a girl kissing me it's make's me feel better. So if your a girl in her 30's or 40 that's nice okay? You have any thing to ask me feel free to ask me but likie I say to have girl keep it clean okay? I don't wish to get up set any more it's not good for me and I'm sure it not good for you too. You can trust me just don't say can't to me okay? Thank you for your time from your new friend Paul Gerard Mazzola.

Fall Affair to Winter Relationship

Dennis, 60 and Karen, 53 met in the fall when Karen’s kids were heading off to college.  With more time for herself, Karen posted her profile and photo on an online dating site for single baby boomers and Dennis, a Sean Connery look-a-like was the second suitor to ask her out. They only lived 25 minutes away from each other in Long Island, so their dates began casually with dinners at outdoor cafes, walks in the park, harvest-related events like apple-picking, wine tasting and watching the leaves change colors.  It wasn’t difficult to find things to do together when the weather was warm but with winter approaching,Dennis and Karen were challenged to find out if they had enough heat to stay together in the cold. If you live in a region like the Northeast where winter can bring temperatures in the single digits, follow these tips below to get warmed-up: Break the Ice