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Dating quandries:  I'm complicated!

Dating quandries: I'm complicated!

You'd think since I'm 27, I wouldn't be able to count how many dates I've been on, on just one hand. Ha! That's a riot! My date count today: 3. My date turn downs: more than my fingers and toes can tally!

Repeating Patterns

Repeating Patterns

I seem to always for the same type of guys. You know the ones that are just out of reach and present a challenge. I go after them with all I have and chase until I catch...happy for awhile and then once the joy of the catch and challenge wears off...I want to move on. You would think I am hot, sexy and out there. Just the opposite, i am average and kind of shy. I was involved with a married man for 3 years and I honestly think that was the best sex I ever had. My marriage was a joke...I married because I thought I should and he was my last chance. Oh well,,,we learn and move on!

Lunching without him...

tis mornin, he started 2 tok 2 mi hee... i saw his happi smile lookin at his pc 1st dae in e mornin lol. he saw mi look so happi when enterin e office. so he asked mi y e new guy nv came and i felt so happi. i said 'aiya, u bluff mi 1 la lol'. den he said tt guy's comin in a few days. but i noe he stil joked wif mi la lol. he looked at mi mani x agn 2dae hee. i noe cos he gt turn his head c mi when i opened e door lol. mebe cos i wore nicenice 2dae ;p he nv acc mi go lunch 2dae which puzzled mi alot. tho i was mentalli prep le. heng my fren was willing 2 do so. he reasoned he wan eat e curry rice at tt canteen. i kept tinkin alot cos i dun quite blive him leh. isit cos he's shy? he dun like 2 eat wif mi cos he dun lk bein alone wif mi? but at least he asked mi wan e cleaner 2 buy 4 mi? den he 4gt stil gt my fren 2 eat wif us. i jus asked my fren was he lk tt when workin wif her last tm? she said he gt eat wif her b4 leh :( i wonder y he treated mi differently haiz...