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Beware The Man With an Exit Plan

Beware The Man With an Exit Plan

Name: Elle | | Location: Philly , PA |Question: I have been seeing this guy for over three months. He told me that he is not interested in a serious relationship because of the hours he puts in at work and the fact that he wants to go overseas to do "Doctors without borders". While I think that this is a very noble cause and way of life. This is not what I am interested in in my future. And I told him that. And I also told him that I am interested in marriage in my future and in having kids. He told me that he does not want to lead me on and that I can see other guys so that I can basically meet someone to settle down with. I don't call the guy. I only respond to his texts and phone calls. We have only gone on three dates during these three months. Earlier this week he called me to ask me if I wanted to go to Los Vegas with him for New Year's Eve. All expense paid trip on him. I am confused. Why is this guy treating me to a very expensive trip if he is not interested in

Community Blog: The Sassy Way To Survive The Family

Community Blog: The Sassy Way To Survive The Family

What do you do when you're home for the holidays and you have to face the same old stupid questions? The best approach is to smile and answer them sweetly. But wouldn't it be fun to be completely outrageous?

Completely Bare Down There

I am dating a man who is significantly younger than me and loving it! The problem is that he keeps asking me to go “completely bare down there.” Am I being old-fashioned if I refuse to shave it all off for him? SingleEdition.com Sex and Intimacy Expert Cathy Beaton's Answer:It doesn't sound like you're acting a bit old fashioned when it comes to dating a younger man-and loving it.  You're being adventurous and challenging some norms.  I'm sure you thought about the age difference with this guy and then decided to go ahead with what felt right for you.  That's terrific, as long as your needs are being met.