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Standards too high?

Standards too high?

I am so tired of being without a significant other. Divorced for 3 years and still not in a relationship. I really really want someone but I REFUSE to be unhappy in a relationship. The only men I seem to attract are youngsters- college age, or oldsters-social security or disabled. Where are the responsible men between 40 and 5?? I dread the upcoming holidays. After everyone leaves or goes to be with their significant others, I feel so alone and lonely. I don't mind being alone sometimes, but damn...........

Love should not hurt, or be a game.

Love should not hurt, or be a game.

There has to be good men out there still? I don't believe that all men are cheats. They are just really hard to find these days. I can't stand the game. If your relationship isn't working out then why not just tell the other person the truth so you can both move on and be happy. why? hurt one another by lies and cheating on one another. when you find the one you love there should be no one else that could ever come between you.

just stuck... resignation?

just stuck... resignation?

a very old marriage (in all senses)... 25 years of resistance... now i'm starting to resignate. perhaps this the best way to rest in peace. Just tired of trying... our relationship is only based on material progress... it seems to be all right for him... he just don't want to analyse this matters... he's to busy ! I feel so empty !

just stuck... resignation?

just stuck... resignation?

a very old marriage (in all senses)... 25 years of resistance... now i'm starting to resignate. perhaps this the best way to rest in peace. Just tired of trying... our relationship is only based on material progress... it seems to be all right for him... he just don't want to analyse this matters... he's to busy ! I feel so empty !