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Out Love Each Other

Out Love Each Other

So, here we are again. Valentine’s Day. The day couples step it up from their usual day-to-day grind to show how much they care.   Sure, it’s a bit contrived and cliche, and many people argue that they don’t need a day set aside by Hallmark to prove they love each other.  I see your point here, maybe we shouldn’t need a special day to celebrate our love. But, hell! Relationships are hard work! Why wouldn’t you take every chance you get to strengthen your bond and remind your special someone how much you appreciate them! My advice to you, is to celebrate Valentine’s Day in a BIG way!  It shows you value what you have. We all long for the days when our relationship was new and everyday felt like Valentine’s Day! The truth is, however, that as our love grows, we become more comfortable.  And comfort can easily transition into laziness.  The Key to keeping that Valentine’s Day love going all

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rejoicing

I am so full of joy today in the one part of my life that is the most joyful while so much is not. My wife and I have been together in dating and in marriage since 1984. I truly have the most wonderful wife in the world and we are happier now and have a hotter romance life now that ever before!!!!!!!! At that's saying a lot for someone 52 and for a wife who is 55 because my therapist tells me a lot of couples that he see our age don't have what we have!!!! If they don't I wish they did!!!!! As you can tell, I can hardly contain my joy.

Is Your Mom Ruining Your Love Life?

Is Your Mom Ruining Your Love Life?

I love my mom.  But I think I’m going to have to cut her loose.  Apparently, she’s destroying my love life. Lots of women have mothers who nag them about their figures, wonder aloud why their daughters haven’t found a decent fella or tsk disapprovingly about the way they raise their kids.  Not mine.  For the most part, my mother leaves me to my own devices.  Or so I thought. According to a study by the University of Western Australia, the overt ways mothers try to influence their daughters’ personal lives don’t hold a candle to their more dire biological hand-me-downs.  Scientists studied the DNA of 150 college students and found “the more varied [her] genes…the more boyfriends a woman was likely to have,” the assumption being genetic variation leads to attraction.

PROBLEMS IN BED

I have been with my boyfriend for almost 1yr. He is a little more experienced then i am, he never complains or says anything, but i feel im doing something wrong or just not doing it right. I have the biggest problem being on top, and can never stand it for too long, eather i get to tire or just get embarrassed. If anyone can help me please i need it.

18 YEARS LATER.....OMG...!

18 YEARS LATER.....OMG...!

I ran into an old fling from 18 years ago....and I'm single and searching for something meaningful.....we are going out to meet for dinner.....how do I handle this?

Hopelessly In Love

Hopelessly In Love

I am madely head over heals in love with the woman of my dreams. Let me start by saying, she is 27 years younger then I am. We've known each other for over 5 years, and we became best friends before we started dating. We've been dating for 23 months, we've been engaged for for 11 months, and we've been living together for 7 months. But now it seems like I can't do anything right by her. She is almost always mad at me about something. And when she gets up set with me, she will leave and I won't see her or hear from her until she has calmed down. And when she comes back,it's like it never happened. she will never tell me what I did to upset her. All she'll say is, " it's over, I don't want to talk about it". I tell her daily that to me she is the most beautiful woman on earth, and she gets mad at me for saying that. I'm not allowed to talk about us to anyone, or she gets real mad, and I won't see or hear from her for awhile. The longest so far is 14 days. When we first started dating, she would call me 4 or 5 times a day to say she was thinking about me, and that she loved me. Now getting her to say she loves me is like pulling teeth. I don't want to loose her.