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ONLINE DATERS SUCCESS HABITS

ONLINE DATERS SUCCESS HABITS

2010 Boomer Trend Report: 7 Highly Effective Habits of Successful Online Daters: I'd hear countless stories about people meeting online and marrying; it just never happened to me. After six years of email exchanges, hundreds of dates and trips to California, Chicago and DC to meet people, I decided that if I was looking for someone serious, I'd better make a commitment too.

The things I've learnt...

The things I've learnt...

1) Never get married before your relationship is at least 2 years old... There are so many things to learn about the person you are inlove with, and this takes time. We never show absolutely everything about ourselves to our love interest in the first months, but these are things that we want to know about them and they about us. Get to know each other. Spend time together and apart. It is not as easy as it sounds to get a divorce...even if you don't have children. 2) Don't expect that you will never change. Women change...over time they evolve into beings quite different to the giggling teenager or the young twenty-something. Get to know yourself a little before you take that huge plunge and make sure that the person you are with is ready for the changes to come. If he really is the right man he will be patient and wait until you are ready to spend a lifetime with him, and he will love the woman you grow into.

Let's Get Physical

Let's Get Physical

My friend Rebecca and I noticed something strange about men when we were living in Spain.  Despite the care we took to cultivate our respective “looks” whilst on the prowl (I went artsy, sex kitten Boho, Rebecca was a naughty tomboy), our greatest romantic triumphs never happened when we were all dolled up.  During one sweaty afternoon, my friend and I came to realize we were most attractive to men when we were, of all things, jogging. Rebecca and I made it a habit to run around Madrid’s Retiro Park on sunny days.  Always, we went without makeup.  Unshowered.  Hair in messy ponytails.  Mismatched, though admittedly snug, running shorts.  Not exactly the most glamorous of looks, but from the cat calls given to us by male passersby, you’d have thought we were Halle Berry and Julia Roberts on Oscar night. Back in the States, men seem to be equally bowled over by female joggers and, in general, get googly eyed around exercising women.  Of