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Are Fuck Buddies Keeping You Single

Are Fuck Buddies Keeping You Single

READ THE COMMENTS POSTED IN RESPONSE TO THIS COLUMN HERE: http://moxieblog.typepad.com/moxieblog/2009/12/one-step-forward-two-steps-back.html FOLLOW ME ON TWITTER: http://twitter.com/Moxieinthecity I mean, first things first -- would you expect details and truth to come forth in heaps from another fuck buddy? I certainly don't. Dudes that I'm just fucking, I make it very clear, I don't want to know or learn too much about you. Verify that you're single and let's keep it physical. Period.- Jami And how does one verify such a thing? The fact is, you can never verify if a fuck buddy is single. The idea that you think you can brings me to my main point. You think you have all this control in this dynamic...but you don't. You actually have very little. And by "you" I mean "women."

The Delusions of a 40+ Single Man

The Delusions of a 40+ Single Man

READ THE COMMENTS POSTED IN RESPONSE TO THIS COLUMN HERE: http://moxieblog.typepad.com/moxieblog/2009/12/the-delusions-of-a-40-single-man.html I agree that few 26 yr olds are thinking about having 4 kids with a 45 yr old. But as a 41 yr old, so far I've  had no problem meeting ladies who are between 25 and 30, and who know how many kids i want (it's all disclosed in my online profiles).- New_NYC_Resident Joey Giraud: "And the 41 yr old guy who wants 3-4 kids.. sure you can make em, but can you keep up with em? ( eye roll ) Get real, studley". ((double eye roll)) I run marathons and run 3 businesses... the question will be, can they keep up with me? LOL! :-) - New_NYC_Resident

Are You An Equal Opportunity Dater?

Are You An Equal Opportunity Dater?

Read our daily advice column and join the conversation about this column here Name: shary | Location: Washington , DC |Question: I have always being attracted to Caucasian  men,  considering I? a black female it makes it harder for me to approach them or strike a conversation. My question is which would be the best places for me to hang out to increase my chances of meeting one, and are there any social gatherings for people with this interest in DC.|Age: 25 I don't know of specific organizations that cater to bi-racial dating. I do know certain speeddating events that offer Ethnicity X Female/White Male events. I rarely see any Ethnicity X Male/White Female Events. For some reason, the white male is "the get." When I used to organize speeddating events for another company, I never liked the idea of planning these types of events. I felt it was feeding in to a

Making a Move at Midnight

Making a Move at Midnight

By Lori Bizocco for SingleEdition.com For those of Christian faith, the thought of meeting someone new or going on a date at midnight while the majority of people are sleeping can tempt our moral values by inviting sexual immorality, drinking and corruption of judgment.  You’ve heard the saying, “Nothing good happens after midnight.”  That statement resonates even stronger for those who are religious.  Bars and nightclubs seem to be the main attraction during this “witching hour,” but these venues are not appropriate for those of faith.So, why even consider going out on a date or trying to find someone special after midnight?  For many people, there isn’t much of a choice.  With the downturn of the economy, more people are taking odd jobs, working longer hours and doing what they can to survive.  Others are working overnight shifts and finding it hard to meet someone at hours when society, peers and the church wou

The sleeper has awakened

The sleeper has awakened

For the last 4 years of my life I feel like I have been in acoma and now woken up a couple of months ago. I was a walking zombie playing husband and Father roles but never trully alive just going through the motions. My Army career my marriage everything suffered because of it. That man now is buried deep deep within me and only shows his face in nightmares. I have never felt more alive then I do right now, stronger in my marriage and in all walks of life, a better man, a stronger man,,, and it feels amazing,,,,,,,,

UGLY

UGLY

what happens when your ugly when the real reason your alone is not because you want to or because you dont want to its because you are UGLY!!! What then? Do you just settle and realize that because your ugly you will be alone? what do you do when your ugly when men pretty much look at you and are disgusted by you what then? when your own mother feels sorry for their grandaughter because she looks like you (my niece) her words exactly and I quote "poor thing she looks like her ugly aunt" what then? when you join online dating and get rejected to many times to count what then? what do you do when your UGLY when everyone around you has mentioned it on occassions when they think your not listening. Is there hope for the ugly girl or should I just start adopting cats (which by the way I am not a fan of) maybe I'll get puppys.

STDs and Sex

STDs and Sex

Were going to go over STDs, Sex, and how not to catch one of these popular little friends that run ramped across the globe.