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Community: 3 Things To Know Before Getting Married

Community: 3 Things To Know Before Getting Married

Getting married is a big step. Even starting a new relationship with someone is kind of like jumping into the pool feet first. Is there anything you can do to keep a relationship or marriage from ending badly? Is there anything you should know before getting married or starting a new relationship, so you can have the best chance at success?

My Outlook on Life & Love

My Outlook on Life & Love

I love life. I really do. I know that the world has a lot of problems, but in my opinion the good definitely out-weighs the bad. I love the simple things of life, I love the complicated things of life. The natural, the superficial. The exciting, the mundane. The ups, the downs. They're all a part of the big picture. I always try to stay positive and hold onto the good things in life, to not get blinded by the less than pleasant things that happen. There will always be times, especially in love, where things are not going right. That cute guy you've had your eye on turns out to be as interesting as a post box. The guy you've been seeing for months all of sudden changes, becomes someone you don't recognise, falls in love - with someone else. These things are never nice, but I like to think that we can always learn from our mistakes and the things that didn't work out. But when things are going right, or at least are on the right track, you realise why certain things had to happen for other things to stand a chance. Suddenly you notice everything that makes the world an amazing place to live in. As the saying goes, you've gotta take the bad with the good. But just remember, although things can get really bad, things get really good too. And when it's good, it's real good...