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Get Me to The Geek.

Note: As always, follow my continuing journey on my personal blog, So about what I said...I first spotted Cute Cafeteria Guy one sunny spring afternoon as I sat down to eat my usual, boring lunch. The cafeteria was crowded, but it didn’t seem to bother him as he tucked himself away at a corner toward the back. He had that boyish cuteness about him, his attention transfixed on his laptop, which of course was a state-of-the-art model. He remained quiet, shy and reserved, and I remained, well, very interested. He was mysterious and I wanted to know more. Over the next week, I continued to spot him as I sipped my Mountain Dew and tried to work up the courage to approach him. But he suddenly disappeared, and alas, my hopes were quickly and swiftly dashed.

Community: Attract A Man Using Your Inner Artist

Community: Attract A Man Using Your Inner Artist

Knowing how to attract a man is an art form. And much like an art form, when you attract a man you need to have set of rules that guide you and that allow you to envision you end "product." This article will show you the similarities between art and attracting a man and give you specific advice on how to land your next man.

Girlfriend or Girl Friend?

Happy Monday, all! As usual, don't forget that you can get more scoop on my personal blog, So about what I said...Over tuna melts and coffee in a small-town diner one September afternoon, one of my oldest friends, Claire, and I were in the midst of catching up on each other’s busy lives. Work (we weren’t thrilled about our post-college jobs, but it paid the rent). Family (We wondered why our families become crazier and more dramatic with age). The nip of fall in the air (Were we turning into old ladies?)  After a lull in the conversation, Claire’s eyes lit up.  “So I hear you’re sad over a boy,” she said in a hushed voice as if trying to be discrete and not divulge top-secret FBI classified information.  We were suddenly 15 again. 

Are You Too Much of a Floozy?

Are You Too Much of a Floozy?

For the second time this year, my friend Kim has had to tell a guy who offered to pay her for sex to get lost. Though Kim is no bombshell, she’s certainly real-world hot.  Great bod, killer personality, enough sexual dynamism to ignite World War III.  Men write poems to her in European cafés, chat her up in bars despite the presence of their wives and girlfriends, and friend her on Facebook to tell her she’s still their “best” even if it’s been decades since their roll in the hay. When Kim was younger, she liked being a sexual supernova.  No shame felt she for her wanton ways, her colossal lustiness, her stereotypically manly ability to separate sex from love.  She wasn’t a man stealer or desperate fool.  Kim was a healthy sexual being, as whip smart as she was sensual, as capable of meaty conversation as she was blowing minds in the sack. Then all in the same week, stuff happened.  First, she had to tell

Charlene Wittstock and Prince Albert engaged

Today, the official news agency of the royal house of Monaco announced that ruler Prince Albert II is engaged to Charlene Wittstock. Both members of the couple are athletes that have competed in the Olympics. The very wealthy country is certain to be preparing a huge celebration, though the official wedding date is not yet set. Article Resource:Royal Olympians - Prince Albert and Charlene Wittstock engaged The relationship of Prince Albert of Monaco and Charlene WittstockSon of Princess Grace Kelly and Prince Rainier III, Prince Albert has reigned as Monaco's ruler since 2005. During a high-level swimming competition, Prince Albert II met Charlene Wittstock. A schoolteacher also as Olympic swimmer, Charlene Wittstock has lived in Monaco since 2006. No official date for the wedding has been set, though tradition requires a waiting period of at least six months.

5 best Tom Cruise performances

Before all the couch-jumping and mesoscreepy laughter in leaked Scientology videos, before public spats withMatt Lauer and Brooke Shields, Cruise wasn't just THE A-lister amongall Hollywood A-listers, he was also an actor who could really act.In recent years, his off-screen antics have overshadowed his on-screentalent. "Knight and Day," coming out this week, should turn thataround: Cruise is at his charismatic best here, equally adept with thestunts in the action sequences as he is with the banter with co-starCameron Diaz. So it's a good opportunity to look back at his strongest performances — the ones that made Tom Cruise, Tom Cruise:? "Magnolia" (1999): Pretty much universally recognized as his bestwork ever, it earned him the third of his three Oscar nominations, thistime for supporting actor. As cocky self-help speaker Frank T. J.Mackey,

9 Ways I Got Over My Ex

9 Ways I Got Over My Ex

I went through a bad breakup. It traumatized me emotionally, but I could not let it get the best of me. I never got any closure or reason for it. I realized I had to move on with my life or I would be stuck.