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ugh why

ugh ok so I don't get it why is it life has to be so complicated I have been seeing this one guy for a while who is in the middle of a divorce from his crazy drunk wife so hes afraid to make anything official between us for my own good (or so he says) what have I gotten myself into? and what do I do?