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Marriage before Children?!? I thought was absurd;

Marriage before Children?!? I thought was absurd;

A child's brain is so unique, tender, and fragile. I speak this way because I am an educator who studied psychology for four years. Traditionally, I was taught that children are always put first. In my family, children are revered and viewed as the most important part of the family. My family is very big and we are many for this reason. 

Getting Through the Ho-Ho-Holiday Heartbreak

Getting Through the Ho-Ho-Holiday Heartbreak

The holidays can bring out the boo-hoo-blues for many people – especially those who are newly single. Between family events and holiday parties, it seems everyone is coupled up and jolly but you. Here are some sure-fire ways to get through the holidays, and maybe even experience a little holiday cheer!  

5 Tips to Breakthrough Heartbreak

5 Tips to Breakthrough Heartbreak

A breakup can take such a toll on your heart that it seems impossible to get out of bed, let alone out of your own way so that you can move on. But the only way to begin to take the pain away and move forward is to kickstart your heart. We have tried and tested countless techniques to uncover which ones will turn your breakup into a breakthrough. Here are five to get you started!

Overly Feminine Women And Why You Would Consder Cheating

Overly Feminine Women And Why You Would Consder Cheating

"Every guy wants his girlfriend to exhibit a certain amount of typically feminine qualities. But what happens when your girlfriend is overly feminine to the point where it becomes a problem? They begin to embody all the stereotypical qualities that women are said to have that annoy men everywhere. What if your girlfriend is this stereotypical female who overreacts about everything, cries at the sight of bugs, is incredible jealous, constantly accuses you of thinking about cheating, etc? Do you try and talk to her or just break up with her?

overcoming shyness

overcoming shyness

I want to get more practice in dating, so i signed up for various online dating sites. I selected the one where i have to pay a little, i think and hope people are more serious there... we will see... I had email contact to a guy, who sounded very funny when he emailed. Because his mail sounded more funny than the other mails i get, i decided to write to him.

A Rant on Sex and Violence  

A Rant on Sex and Violence  

Lila here: Can someone please tell me what the hell is wrong with our society?  We allow children to watch violent movies and play even more violent video games, but we don’t give them healthy role models for sexual activity.   

Holiday Treats for Your Honey: Make Your Other Half Feel Special

Holiday Treats for Your Honey: Make Your Other Half Feel Special

During the holidays, it can be easy to lose sight of what’s really important. Between decorating the house, catering to guests, buying, wrapping and shipping gifts, and basically running around like a wild banshee, it can be hard to find a minute for yourself, much less your significant other. But if you neglect your most important relationship, both of you are likely to reach the actual holidays feeling burnt out and nowhere near the spirit of the season. In short, you’re shooting yourself in the foot. You need to take a step back and prioritize.

You Had Me at Harvard

You Had Me at Harvard

A woman I know, who we’ll call Emily, wants to marry a doctor. Actually, she wants to marry a doctor, lawyer or anyone who makes tons of cash. Whenever I run into her, Emily shares stories about dating medical residents and rejecting normal guys because she’s “waiting for her doctor.” She’s very Shirley Feeney that way.