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What Not to Wear on a Date

What Not to Wear on a Date

Making a good impression requires that you not only act the part, but also dress the part. If you look good and you feel good it comes across to the person you're with and pays off in spades.

Can Swinging Save Your Marriage?

Can Swinging Save Your Marriage?

Lila here~ I just read a brief synopsis of some research done by sociologist Curtis Bergstrand. He’s recently written a book called Swinging in America: Love, Sex and Marriage in the 21st Century. In the book, he explores whether the institution of marriage is broken. In a word: yes.In Bergstrand’s exploration of what’s wrong with marriage (and by that, he means traditional monogamous, til-death-do-we part marriage) led him to wonder what, if anything, could save this age-old institution. And that’s where swinging enters the picture.

When To Call It Quits

When To Call It Quits

When do we know when it’s time to move on? Time to leave a broken relationship rather than fixing it, in hopes of finding something even better? What does it mean if you’re constantly picking fights with your partner, or they are constantly upset with you?

5 Ways to Eat Out For Less

5 Ways to Eat Out For Less

Want to keep your wallet and your waist line in check? Then check out these five simple tips from personal finance expert Manisha Thakor on how to eat out for less. Following these simple money management strategies will enable you to have your financial cake and eat it too.

Personally added

Personally added

I wonder how many other women have come home from working 3rd shift to find their husband searching personal ads on Craig's list? For awhile I thought it was just me - then I got wind of a news story where Craig's list was removing their adult ads. Interesting, if only they had done it 6 months earlier. I may not be living in my own tiny apartment and going on awkward dates to find my next true love or something, whatever. It's not like it happened once. Or twice. I wish I knew exactly how many times it happened. Or maybe I don't. And even that, the looking at personal ads, wasn't what tipped the scale. It was the placing of personal ads.

How to Survive a Breakup: The Shetox

How to Survive a Breakup: The Shetox

Last week I blogged about those “easy” break ups, the ones you could literally do over the phone. That got me thinking about the other kind of breakups, the ones that aren’t so easy. These are the ones that really hurt. Maybe you have been together for a long time, and just know it isn’t right for you any longer. Or, maybe it’s the kind of breakup that was not your idea; it was hers. Some say this kind are the worst. I think they both suck, but at times both are necessary. Having been through quite of few of them over the years and coached many a client through them, I have learned a few things on the subject. Below is a survival guide to getting through breakups as quickly and painlessly as possible.