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Cheating Abroad

Cheating Abroad

I love my bf more than anything in this world. He is my first relationship and we have been together for 1.5yrs. we just know that we are meant to be together. I have been...

Stripping: The Smart Gal's Path to Success

Stripping: The Smart Gal's Path to Success

Man, I should’ve been a stripper. Diablo Cody, the Oscar-winning Juno screenwriter, popped into the news the other day after having given birth to a healthy baby boy.  Along with attaining gobs of wealth, publishing success and Hollywood kudos, the former stripper is also happily married now with child. No longer are sex workers the downtrodden, drug-addled outcasts of yore, at least not the ones who can string a sentence together.  Memoirs penned by former pole dancers and call girls flow through the publishing landscape like dollar bills at a Vegas strip joint.  Since Xaviera Hollander’s Happy Hooker in the ‘70s, it seems everyone from Harvard post-docs to failed Hollywood starlets have slept their way onto the bestseller list, having picked the locks on their sex industry diaries for all the world to see. Years back, a woman named Jessica Cutler hit pay dirt with a fictionalized account of her years Monica Lewinsky-ing her way through

Dear Men: she's not a cougar if she’s your age.

In the Utopian world of some men, aging, wrinkles and the word "older" only applies to women. Besides the obvious delusion that needs correcting, having an unrealistic view of yourself can affect how your write your profile and whom it attracts.