Do you have an opinion on love, dating, sex and relationships? Come tell us about it on YourTango's community blog.
That Baby Don't Look Like Me

That Baby Don't Look Like Me

My boyfriend and I have a very odd relationship. He's 20 and I'm 18. We have been together for almost 5 years now. We took each others virginity when I was 12 and he was 14. We have lived together the whole time we have dated. When I say 5 years, that is an exception of one break. And boy, did that one break interfear with our lives? haha, oh yes. In more than one way.

What to do... Cheat on a great fiance in a sexless relationship??

What to do... Cheat on a great fiance in a sexless relationship??

"Hey people, Im a young responsible 25 years old young man, who is engaged and has a daughter with a woderful fiance and mother. Everything is swell in our 4 years of being together. We both have careers, we love each other and are still attracted to each other. However, my fiance has ZERO sex drive! and mine is in full gear! This is beginning to become an issue, considering we have talked about this problem on more than 50 occasions...not kiding.

Now is the Time to Make 2010 the Best Year Ever

Now is the Time to Make 2010 the Best Year Ever

My mother is a consummate story teller. Put a kid in front of her and she transforms into some odd rendition of Dr. Seuss. Put her in a room of adults she only tones it down a little bit. She has a story in her head for every imaginable occasion and to illustrate any given point. Just about every time I call her she will start the conversation by saying, “ I’ve got a story/poem/article I’d like to tell/read you.” Based on this love of stories, my mother is the keeper of the history of our family.

WHAT TO DO?

WHAT TO DO?

scenerio.. a guy who is openly happy in his relationship with his gf, has introduced her to his family and and he to hers, and who is normally very considerate, is being actively pursued by a woman from a divorce group. he doesn't think it is a big deal and his gf is overeacting. this woman continues to invite him for drinks both alone and with her friends, he keeps declining, once brought his gf with him but did not introduce her as his gf and let her do it! he wants his gf to drop it and let him handle it 'his way'.

My partner doesn't want sex - What's wrong with me?

My partner doesn't want sex - What's wrong with me?

Jenny dressed up in her sexy red mini dress, stylish very high heels, and made sensual, inviting remarks to Tom all through their romantic dinner date.  He even appeared to respond with seductive words and sensual touch.  But that only lasted at the restaurant.  When they got home, the mood somehow shifted.  He went directly to his computer to "finish some business he had forgotten he needed to do."  Jenny waited patiently, coaxing him to "Come to bed."  Finally and reluctantlhy, he closed his computer, washed up and joiner her in the bed

You Know You Might Be a Booty Call If...

You Know You Might Be a Booty Call If...

First of all, let me state for the record, I have no issue with the concept of booty call. If both partners are consenting, and know exactly what they’ve signed up for - great. However, it seems as though women can’t see the forest for the trees inside the booty call at times. Meaning, the man involved knows exactly what it is. He defines it by his unwillingness to take the relationship further. Her friends even know what it is. However, she wants to think there is something more serious going on, or at least hopes there might be someday if she hangs out long enough.