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New Year's Resolutions for Better Sex in 2011

New Year's Resolutions for Better Sex in 2011

Whether you are coupled or single, here are a few resolutions to get your “Year of Pleasure” started. First of all, do some redecorating. Look around your bedroom – does this room make you feel sensual and sexy? If not, it’s time to spruce things up. Our surroundings can have a significant impact on how we feel. Think about it – we spend time in nature or go to a house of worship to feel connected to something greater than ourselves. In contrast, when we want to let loose and have fun, we go to a bar.

I Bigger Really Better? It Is For This Girl

I Bigger Really Better? It Is For This Girl

"So I've been dating my boyfriend for 2 years now, we are in our last year of college. He's an amazing guy and we have a great relationship. A couple weeks ago, I was drunk at a party and let myself cheat on him, I can't explain why. My boyfriend is good in bed, but his package is just barley around 5 inches i think. The guy i slept with was huge, I'd say at least 8 or 9 inches, and it felt soooo amazingly good. I've never had an orgasm like that before. Now I don't know what to do. I love my boyfriend, but I'm just not always satisfied now.

How to have happy holiday seasons with no going into debt

How to have happy holiday seasons with no going into debt

The best way to have satisfied holiday seasons is to enjoy them without the stress of contributing to your debt. The holiday marketing machine does all it can to get customers to spend more than they have for the holidays. The true holiday spirit has been lost within the process. Debt-free gift-giving, however, will warm one's heart far more than the shock of an higher credit card statement to start the new yr. Article source - How to have happy holidays without going into debt by Money Blog Newz.

Gay Open Relationships

Gay Open Relationships

My partner and I are have only had 8+ months of connection but it was spot on from our second meeting.  At 4 months we chose to move in together with some of my friends saying thats way to early.  It was my friends that were scaring me not my partner.  He was very open about what he wanted in a long term relationship with it being open.  This is a road I've never travel before and had to really think about "is this the path I want to take for me".  We have had 5 experiences with an additional man in the bedroom and can say it didn't hurt our rel

Buying A hristmas Gift For Your Mistress

Buying A hristmas Gift For Your Mistress

In the spirit of the holiday everyone is out buying presents. Presents for family, friends, co-workers and even mistresses. If you’re having an affair, does it make it worse if you get your mistress a holiday gift? At what point does it go from being an affair to being a full blown relationship? I personally think that if you’re going out of your way to get your mistress something then you clearly have feelings for her beyond the point of them being purely sexual, you’re starting to establish an emotional connection.

Ladies, Should You Ask For It?

Ladies, Should You Ask For It?

Quick - what was the first thing that came to your mind when you read the title of this post? What about "Gentleman, should you ask for it?" Would this change your response? For many people the female-oriented title raises sexual connotations while the male-oriented iteration conjures thoughts of money and power.

5 Steps to a Better Relationship-- The Gift of Love

5 Steps to a Better Relationship-- The Gift of Love

Lila here~ I started an experiment a few months ago, and have gathered enough research that I can confidently share it with you now, just in time for Festivus, Christmas, or New Years; whichever you celebrate.      It started with a premise that nobody wants to be miserable.  Even people that act miserable on a regular basis would rather not feel miserable.  But they’re in pain, so they lash out.  The pain they feel is the result of feeling unloved, unlovable or unworthy in some way. 

Eperience Everything Sexual Before it's Too Late

Eperience Everything Sexual Before it's Too Late

"I've been with my boyfriend for nearly 2 years. He is my first boyfriend and I never thought that it would last long. things went really fast and we were in a steady relationship all of a sudden. What I feel for him is love and I think that he could be the one, I just think I met him too early. I want to meet other people and see what the world has to offer me before I think about getting married. I'm 21 years old I thought in this time in my life I would have been going out and flirting with boys, all I do now is whine about how insensitive he can be.