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The Myth of the Secret Code

The Myth of the Secret Code

OK, so the title of this blog is misleading. There is no secret code to unlocking a woman’s libido. I’m sorry to be the one to tell you this, but it’s the truth. The one constant about women is that what turns us on is never the same. Never might be stretching the truth a wee bit, but rarely will the same thing turn us on every time. It’s one of the things that is probably the most maddening about us as a species.

My first love

I finally found out who my first love was, isn't that funny? After 50 years, God and myself. Now this may sound selfish, but, it would be foolish not to love myself, if I don't, how can I love anyone else. If I am around someone else I do not care about I can leave, I can't leave me! I'm always there, I look in the mirror, there I am! I go to the bathroom, there I am again! So I like me a lot now, it took time,but in making pease with myself and loving myself I have come to know and understand God much more. I do not say I found God, God was never lost, I was. Today I have also gained a certain someone in my life and we are happy together. When I learned how to love myself I knew then just how much the lord loved me, you see God lives in all of us.

nice guy
Do you like nice guys or bad boys?

12 Reasons Women Don't Date Nice Guys

1. Not real. Nice guys are too nice. No one can always be that nice unless they're a saint. They are busy being nice instead of being real and women instinctually don't trust that. Bad boys "keep it real." Nice guys don't want to upset the apple cart. 2. Respect. No one respects a doormat. Nice guys don't set boundaries or make any real demands. A bad boy doesn't let a woman walk all over him or control him. Women can't respect a man they can control. No respect equals no attraction.

I will live this day as if it is my last

I will live this day as if it is my last. And what shall I do with this last precious day which remains in my keeping? First, I will seal up its container of life so that not one drop spills itself upon the sand. I will waste not a moment mourning yesterday's misfortunes, yesterday's defeats, yesterday's aches of the heart, for why should I throw good after bad? Can sand flow upward in the hour glass? Will the sun rise where it sets and set where it rises? Can I relive the errors of yesterday and right them? Can I call back yesterday's wounds and make them whole?buy maplestory mesos Can I become younger than yesterday? Can I take back the evil that was spoken, the blows that were struck, the pain that was caused? No. Yesterday is buried forever and I will think of it no more. I will live this day as if it is my last. And what then shall I do? Forgetting yesterday neither will I think of