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9 Deadly Divorce Mistakes Not To Make

The great American philosopher, Yogi Berra, once said, “Be careful, you don’t want to make the wrong mistake.” Nowhere is that more true than in the area of divorce advice. Yogi also said, “90% of this game is half mental.” Also true if you are contemplating, or involved in, a divorce. Almost always, the mindset of the people involved in the divorce is what will eventually dictate the length, complexity and difficulty of the action. If you want to end your marriage as cheaply and as painlessly as possible, do yourself a favor and heed well this advice.

How To Get A Divorce

How To Get A Divorce

Most who decide to divorce make the mistake of not familiarizing themselves with exactly what that means legally. Emotions rule our decision to divorce but legality rules what will happen once the decision to divorce is made. United States Divorce Laws I urge you to study the divorce laws of your state. To learn what the divorce process is like in your state and to arm yourself with the knowledge needed to protect yourself during the legal divorce process.

Have Less Holiday Financial Stress

Have Less Holiday Financial Stress

Does holiday shopping & spending stress you out? A few years ago I stopped doing the holidays. My corporate job had me on a plane every 3 to 4 days. My daily work hours were in the double-digits, and the mere thought of picking out - let alone sending - holiday cards was enough to throw me into tears. Shopping for presents... forgetaboutit. I didn't have the emotional energy to face the crowds and stores.

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Holiday Love Advice: Treat Your Man Like A Christmas Cookie

So, he's cute...kind of crunchy and exciting on the outside like when you two go to parties. Yet, when you're alone, he actually has a delicious little soft spot that's barely more childlike than it is poetic. You'd love to smother him in kisses every morning, but you know that would probably just make you look needy and overbearing, so how do you show him that you want him to stay without chasing him away? If you stay too far away, he's too cute, sociable and funny to not get scooped up by somebody else. If you jump ahead of yourself and stake a claim that he's not into dealing with, you could send him running. Here's my common knowledge on what makes a gingerbread man want to be simply your man:

Texting Your Mistress or Other Guy For That Affair

Texting Your Mistress or Other Guy For That Affair

"Text messaging is an incredible new way to communicate with others. Every so often though, you get a text that leaves you scratching your head. Recently I got a text from my exe asking me to hang out, and when I said I couldn’t hang out the day she wanted and instead offered an alternative, she said no but said that her boyfriend was going away for two weeks and that then shed be all mine. That led to me to wonder how often people are using discreet text messages to schedule affairs while their significant others are away.

How To Date In Internet Dating † For Christian Singles

How To Date In Internet Dating † For Christian Singles

If you are a christian single and are in search for your soul mate who can have the potential to become your true dream date then it would be better to join a christian dating website. But beware of some frauds that prevail in these sites as well. But for some it is a boon for these christian singles.Internet profiling can be used to find Godly men and women that automatically share your greatest interest that of loving and living for our Lord, Jesus Christ.

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Can Music Heal A Broken Heart?

Just imagine what music could do to help you get through your emotional trials post-breakup or divorce. If you use it like medicine and make sure you listen to (and sing along to) at least one feel good song twice a day, or more as you see fit, you’ll see that you’ll start feeling better about yourself. You can even make a playlist of all your favorites to add some variety to the mix. You’ll feel less lethargic and more motivated to go out and do things, you’ll see your confidence start to go up, and you’ll eventually start to wonder how you ever got so hung up over your last break-up.