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I covered the Cougar Convention for YourTango despite being a married father of two.

"He who controls others may be powerful, but he who has mastered himself is mightier still" - Lau Tzu. Do you feel powerful or powerless in your relationships? To find out

Double standards between men and women

I'm developing a television show that brings couples who met while studying, traveling, or working abroad and have since fallen out of contact. The show will reunite the couple back in the country where they fell in love to see if the sparks are still there. Ideally, we're looking for individuals in their mid 20s to mid 30s whose relationships took place between 3 and 10 years ago. This will not be a cheesy reality show. I promise. Please submit information on you, your ex, as well as the circumstances of your foreign relationship. Send to: romanceabroad@gmail.com

There are some great conversations happening around the site this week. Check out the article "What Kind of Guys Look for Affairs Online?". Currently in the comments a debate is raging over whether it is better to be honest about your affair and divorce or keep it a secret and stay with your mate?

Sometimes bachelors aren't as tidy as women!

When people comment on infidelity on sites like this one, the most frequent reaction I read is "If he/she cheats on me, it's the end of the marriage/relationship, I quit!" Well… you know what? That's what you think but I only half believe it. It's a theoretical answer to a theoretical situation, but when it really happens, things are totally different.

Ok guys! No more excuses for being sketchy and behaving like a stalker! I have consulted with my panel of aggravated female experts and we came up with 10 signs that tell you that SHE'S JUST NOT INTO YOU! 1. Bathroom Break away: Her friends keep showing up every time you talk to her and drag her away to the bathroom. This is no coincidence, especially if this happens every time you try to talk to her! Her bladder is not that small! 2. The Gauntlet: You are in a crowd and try to approach her and mysteriously all her friends approach you and try to "get to know you" better. Chances are they are giving her time to pull a Houdini and disappear. At the end of the gauntlet you find only archaeological evidence she was ever there.

"I love you" seems to be nothing more than words anymore. Its like the words are said too easily and without the sense of passion that is supposed to be felt for the one to whom those words are spoken.