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The Search for Mr. Fabulous: Dear Future Lover

The Search for Mr. Fabulous: Dear Future Lover

Dear Future Lover, In case you do not know this by the time you are reading this, I feel the need to tell you that I go through periods of time where I am a hot mess. Like this morning for example, as I stumbled bleery eyed to the bathroom. You would have laughed if you had seen my pajamas bottoms get stuck mid-thigh. And then pointed and laughed as I became increasingly frustrated that they would not come off as I tried to get them off with my toe, because I was too sleepy to bend down like all normal people and remove them.

The Search for Mr. Fabulous: Plentyoffish.com

The Search for Mr. Fabulous: Plentyoffish.com

Plentyoffish.com or Pof.com is a free online dating site. I was on it for about two and a half weeks. Anytime, I signed onto it, I was just inundated with emails from members that were quite eager to meet someone...anyone. That's the feeling I got from anyone on there that I emailed for awhile. Desperation. Clear and distinct, desperation. I am not saying everyone on there is, I mean, I was on there and I am anything but. However, the men I did get contacted by were desperate and it really began to border on creepy before I finally deleted my account entirely.

New Year's Resolutions for Better Sex in 2011

New Year's Resolutions for Better Sex in 2011

Whether you are coupled or single, here are a few resolutions to get your “Year of Pleasure” started. First of all, do some redecorating. Look around your bedroom – does this room make you feel sensual and sexy? If not, it’s time to spruce things up. Our surroundings can have a significant impact on how we feel. Think about it – we spend time in nature or go to a house of worship to feel connected to something greater than ourselves. In contrast, when we want to let loose and have fun, we go to a bar.

I Bigger Really Better? It Is For This Girl

I Bigger Really Better? It Is For This Girl

"So I've been dating my boyfriend for 2 years now, we are in our last year of college. He's an amazing guy and we have a great relationship. A couple weeks ago, I was drunk at a party and let myself cheat on him, I can't explain why. My boyfriend is good in bed, but his package is just barley around 5 inches i think. The guy i slept with was huge, I'd say at least 8 or 9 inches, and it felt soooo amazingly good. I've never had an orgasm like that before. Now I don't know what to do. I love my boyfriend, but I'm just not always satisfied now.

How to have happy holiday seasons with no going into debt

How to have happy holiday seasons with no going into debt

The best way to have satisfied holiday seasons is to enjoy them without the stress of contributing to your debt. The holiday marketing machine does all it can to get customers to spend more than they have for the holidays. The true holiday spirit has been lost within the process. Debt-free gift-giving, however, will warm one's heart far more than the shock of an higher credit card statement to start the new yr. Article source - How to have happy holidays without going into debt by Money Blog Newz.

Gay Open Relationships

Gay Open Relationships

My partner and I are have only had 8+ months of connection but it was spot on from our second meeting.  At 4 months we chose to move in together with some of my friends saying thats way to early.  It was my friends that were scaring me not my partner.  He was very open about what he wanted in a long term relationship with it being open.  This is a road I've never travel before and had to really think about "is this the path I want to take for me".  We have had 5 experiences with an additional man in the bedroom and can say it didn't hurt our rel

Buying A hristmas Gift For Your Mistress

Buying A hristmas Gift For Your Mistress

In the spirit of the holiday everyone is out buying presents. Presents for family, friends, co-workers and even mistresses. If you’re having an affair, does it make it worse if you get your mistress a holiday gift? At what point does it go from being an affair to being a full blown relationship? I personally think that if you’re going out of your way to get your mistress something then you clearly have feelings for her beyond the point of them being purely sexual, you’re starting to establish an emotional connection.

Ladies, Should You Ask For It?

Ladies, Should You Ask For It?

Quick - what was the first thing that came to your mind when you read the title of this post? What about "Gentleman, should you ask for it?" Would this change your response? For many people the female-oriented title raises sexual connotations while the male-oriented iteration conjures thoughts of money and power.