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Best-Selling Relationship Author John Gray Discusses New Book

Best-Selling Relationship Author John Gray Discusses New Book

By Kari Arneson for Cupid's Pulse It’s no wonder that relationship therapist and healthy living coach John Gray, Ph.D., is the best-selling relationship author of all time. His enlightening, instructive and hugely popular Mars-Venus series has sold more than 50 million books, including 1992’s groundbreaking Men Are From Mars, Women Are From Venus, which was the New York Times‘ number one best-selling book of the last decade. But Dr.

The World’s Most Dateable (and Un-Dateable) Celebrities!

The World’s Most Dateable (and Un-Dateable) Celebrities!

By Kari Arneson, for Cupid’s Pulse You’ve watched their movies and seen their TV shows, but have you ever thought what it would be like to date a celebrity? Well, we sure have (and will admit we may have also imagined what a wedding to a certain British Twilight star would be like)! On that note, we scoured the entertainment websites and gossip pages to find the top three most dateable celebrities and their romantic foils, the most un-dateable celebrities.

Kristen McGuiness Talks About Going on 51 Dates in 50 Weeks

Kristen McGuiness Talks About Going on 51 Dates in 50 Weeks

Kristen McGuiness discusses her book, a personal journey of self-discovery. By Kari Arneson for Cupid's Pulse Kristen McGuiness is your average 30-something woman – she has a great career working at a non-profit in Los Angeles and a great boyfriend who might just be The One. But what’s different about McGuiness is how she got to where she is today. As a recovering alcoholic and addict, she knew she had to think outside the box to sort out her priorities.

5 Things You Need to Know About the ‘New’ Bachelor, Brad Womack

5 Things You Need to Know About the ‘New’ Bachelor, Brad Womack

By Kari Arneson for Cupid's Pulse The most controversial Bachelor ever is back Jan. 3! Whether you’re new to the series or are already a devoted fan, here are some things you need to know about Brad Womack before tuning in: 1. He’s a self-made man: Born in Atlanta, Brad was raised alongside his two brothers in a single-parent home. At the age of 28, he bought his first drinking establishment. He currently owns and operates several bars and restaurants in Austin, Texas.

Were We Born to Be Monogamous?

Were We Born to Be Monogamous?

Monogamy is quite the controversial topic these days. On one hand, we adore the ideal of a sexually satisfying monogamous marriage. On the other hand, men and women are finding this goal increasingly difficult to follow. Politicians and sports figures offer examples of the challenges of monogamy on an almost daily basis.

How to Find the Elusive Orgasm

How to Find the Elusive Orgasm

I decided to write this blog for all my sisters who have yet to find the elusive orgasm. I can say that I used to be among you ladies… I would orgasm maybe once a year but I never knew why or what was done to cause it. It wasn’t until I met a man that cared about pleasing me, that I experimented with different positions, talked about what felt good and what didn’t, before I finally learned to orgasm through intercourse.

Give your man the Gift of Role Play

Give your man the Gift of Role Play

Ladies Valentines Day is coming soon and for those who celebrate, what better way to add a little spice to the bedroom during the holiday than to give your man the gift of Role Play (RP). RP is a good way to put that spark back into the bedroom when things have become routine or you are finding that you just aren’t as excited about intimacy as you used to be.

What are Ben Wa Balls?

What are Ben Wa Balls?

I was introduced to Ben Wa Balls back in 2003… I have always liked going to the Adult Toy Stores with my guy and looking around for new stuff. I will admit that although I know what most of the toys in the store do, whenever I saw those little balls I was baffled. So I decided to buy a set and then I got online and did a little research.