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How to Find the Elusive Orgasm

How to Find the Elusive Orgasm

I decided to write this blog for all my sisters who have yet to find the elusive orgasm. I can say that I used to be among you ladies… I would orgasm maybe once a year but I never knew why or what was done to cause it. It wasn’t until I met a man that cared about pleasing me, that I experimented with different positions, talked about what felt good and what didn’t, before I finally learned to orgasm through intercourse.

Give your man the Gift of Role Play

Give your man the Gift of Role Play

Ladies Valentines Day is coming soon and for those who celebrate, what better way to add a little spice to the bedroom during the holiday than to give your man the gift of Role Play (RP). RP is a good way to put that spark back into the bedroom when things have become routine or you are finding that you just aren’t as excited about intimacy as you used to be.

What are Ben Wa Balls?

What are Ben Wa Balls?

I was introduced to Ben Wa Balls back in 2003… I have always liked going to the Adult Toy Stores with my guy and looking around for new stuff. I will admit that although I know what most of the toys in the store do, whenever I saw those little balls I was baffled. So I decided to buy a set and then I got online and did a little research.

How do you build confidence in yourself to have more pleasure in

How do you build confidence in yourself to have more pleasure in

We started this conversation on the Tajahi Facebook Page and I decided to bring it here so I could speak a little more freely. I often worry about what I put on Facebook and try to keep it as clean as possible.... Here I can say what I want, how I want. I will share with you my journey in a quick blog...

How do you build confidence in yourself to have more pleasure in

How do you build confidence in yourself to have more pleasure in

We started this conversation on the Tajahi Facebook Page and I decided to bring it here so I could speak a little more freely. I often worry about what I put on Facebook and try to keep it as clean as possible.... Here I can say what I want, how I want. I will share with you my journey in a quick blog...

Do you know the different types of Orgasm's Women can have?

Do you know the different types of Orgasm's Women can have?

I decided to bring some of the conversation from Facebook over to the blog to allow the ladies to comment and share anonymously. Protecting your identity is important to me and I totally understand this. Some of us may not want co-workers, our managers, or clients to see what we are talking about... So here is your opportunity to just say what you want, how you want with out anyone knowing it is you. Here is what has been discussed thus far on the Tajahi Facebook Page: Tajahi Facebook Page:

Do you know the Best Orgasmic Positions for Women?

Do you know the Best Orgasmic Positions for Women?

Before I start telling you Tajahi’s Secrets, I just want to say thank you to all the ladies who are keeping the Tajahi Facebook page so HOT. We have had some really good short discussions this week and I have really enjoyed the sharing we have done…. THANKS!!!! Ok with that said… this week I want to talk to you about sex positions that are conducive to female orgasm.

Do you know the Best Orgasmic Positions for Women?

Do you know the Best Orgasmic Positions for Women?

Before I start telling you Tajahi’s Secrets, I just want to say thank you to all the ladies who are keeping the Tajahi Facebook page so HOT. We have had some really good short discussions this week and I have really enjoyed the sharing we have done…. THANKS!!!! Ok with that said… this week I want to talk to you about sex positions that are conducive to female orgasm.

Why You Still Can't Get Over Him

Why You Still Can't Get Over Him

If you’re still pinning for a man who has long since moved on with his life and a new love, it may be what you believe about a previous relationship that’s keeping you stuck. These insights will allow you to look at the break up from a more empowering perspective which may just be the key to finally letting go of your ex once and for all and establishing a more gratifying relationship of your own.   1. You never consciously made the choice to let go of the relationship.

New Year's Resolutions

New Year's Resolutions

  If you are single, one of your New Year's resolutions might be to finally find a man and get into a great relationship. Maybe you have vowed not to spend another New Year's Eve at home with your cat watching the ball drop in Times Square. Maybe you have signed up on an online dating site or have joined a meet up group or bowling team. This is all fabulous, get out there and be seen, meet new people. But the best strategy to finally hook up with a soul mate, is to make 2011 the year to love yourself.