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boyfriend isnt turned on

boyfriend isnt turned on

First let me state right up front I am GAY... that out of the way. I have helped more women bring life into a man in long term relationships. A few of them knock on my door (the men) no they are not closeted, just plain horny. Because I am willing to find all the pleasure spots on his body. The FIRST thing you should do is buy a book called "What every straight woman should know about sex; by a gay man." You may have to special order it,,IT'S WORTH THE WAIT!!!  

I Want a Lover with a Slow Hand

I Want a Lover with a Slow Hand

  Life is always giving us opportunities to grow and evolve, right? Ever the introspective one, I’m always attempting to look within, challenge my beliefs systems, and heal my wounds by being radically honest and self-aware. I had the opportunity recently to connect intimately with a potential partner. For several reasons, I decided that it was going to be several months before we had sex. Of course, there were times when I was hot and bothered and I rationalized how several weeks rather than months would be sufficient for our self-imposed abstinence.

Dear Dr. Romance: I cannot compete with a dead man

Dear Dr. Romance: I cannot compete with a dead man

Dear Dr. Romance: I'm a sixty something divorced man, I have not had a relationship for a long time. Last year, I met a wonderful lady from Colombia, who is a little bit younger, well educated and has a green card here. She has taken me out of my lonelines and made me feel alive again. Her late husband was killed by the guerrilla in Colombia. She has told me how wonderful he was and how much they love each other and that is fine.

Comment of the Week for 1/28

Comment of the Week for 1/28

Nothing gets people riled up like a question with no real objective answer. YourTango user DoodleBug got the community talking recently when she posted the Ask YourTango question "What makes an encounter an affair?"

Great Dates for Valentine’s Day

Great Dates for Valentine’s Day

Although you might be going hot and heavy in your relationship, the thought of planning a special Valentine’s Day could have you sweating bullets. February is the month when love is in the air and cupid’s arrow is looking to tackle the unwary, but just because the love bug is tugging at your heartstrings doesn’t mean you have the foggiest notion of how to express your feelings in a new and interesting way.

How To Introduce Sex Toys Into Your Relationship

How To Introduce Sex Toys Into Your Relationship

Introducing an erotic product into your relationship such as a vibrator or bondage kit can improve your sex life and keep the sparks flying. You may have toyed with the idea of using one with your partner, but not know how approach your partner about this new level of intimacy. If you and your partner are comfortable with one another, but are not sure how he or she would react to the idea of using a sex toy, here are some ways that may help you introduce sex toy play into your relationship.