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7 reasons he's single. True and False

7 reasons he's single. True and False

Why’s he single? As a Chicago matchmaker, I often run into objection from my singles looking for love when I describe a person that I think would be a good match. My favorite objection is “Well, if he’s so great, why’s he single?” Ladies…. come on! While constantly looking for negative you’ll be missing out on all the positive. Why he’s single (Perspective from some of my single ladies)

How Did I %^&* This Up?

How Did I %^&* This Up?

Sunday Morning Reflections. I asked too many questions and made too many assumptions.  Self Sabotage I met a man. He seemed sweet and we had a ton in common. His job kept him busy. Mine did as well. In the absence of information about him and the lack of opportunity to get to know him better, I filled in the blanks on my own. Because I'm damaged and insecure my assumptions were all lowest common denominator. They were all wrong. 

Decorating Your Home for Romance

Decorating Your Home for Romance

Your home is the place you have chosen to share the rest of your life with the one you love, so why not decorate it for romance? Of course your first objective is to make your space functional to fit your daily living requirements, so you’re going to need basic pieces like couches and chairs, a dining table, a bed, and storage.

When Sparks Stop Flying In Your Relationship

When Sparks Stop Flying In Your Relationship

There comes a time in any long term relationship when sex is just not the same as it used to be. One day, it seems you wake up, and you realize the sparks are not flying. What happened to that feeling that you couldn’t wait to be with the other person? What happened to those butterflies in your stomach? Or, depending on how far along this path you are, what happened to your sex drive altogether?

A man and a woman have casual sex.

Community Spotlight: Is Casual Sex Good For Women?

"One of the things that I've noticed is that older women are more prone to engage in this type of behavior simply because they have already figured out that the dream of meeting the handsome prince is only a fairy tale. They've been hurt, used and mentally/physically abused so they want to feel like they are in control. They are okay with simply getting their freak on and calling it a day." Do you agree? Are women resorting to casual sex, because they're jaded about love? Join the conversation.

Gibson agrees to marry and smoke Bret Michaels

Gibson agrees to marry and smoke Bret Michaels

Bret Michaels is officially engaged. He proposed after sixteen years of dating, two kids, and several medical scares. Michaels got on one knee and proposed to Gibson while they were filming his reality show. The rest of the episode focused on the fact it was the couple's anniversary. The pair has not yet set a wedding ceremony date, however info is shortly to follow. This wedding ceremony might need the use of a personal cash loan to plan it correctly. Article resource -Bret Michaels engaged - Gibson promises to have, hold, and smoke by MoneyBlogNewz.

Getting back on the horse (Return of the Libido)

Getting back on the horse (Return of the Libido)

Maybe aged 35 I can finally get the dating thing right. I gave up trying when I was 30 I Have finally begun to sort my life out in real terms after years of aimless coasting along... in an attempt at brevity, I can summarize my life thus: I left school at 18 with no confidence, full of hang-ups about sex, had a period in my early 20s of working hard, working out at the gym, drinking hard, using cannabis... then became spiritually aware, quit the drugs/smoking/drunkenness and became a lust crazed wanker in summer and a perverted troll in winter... left church to have a 13 month long distance physical relationship with a woman...

Celebrity Couples Who Have Stayed Together

Celebrity Couples Who Have Stayed Together

Why do some celebrity couples end up as a train wreck, while others seem to withstand the test of time? Different strategies work for different power couples. For some, private time is the glue that cements them. For others, it’s a conscious decision to put marriage and family before work or making time for grand romantic gestures. Check out what works for these four celebrity pairs:

Marriage Is a Loaded Word

Marriage Is a Loaded Word

We got engaged on April Fool’s day. That was a propitious start. At least she couldn’t claim that I didn’t have a sense of humor about the whole thing. Prior to that, I’d only agreed to getting engaged-to-get-engaged one evening at the restaurant called Big Chicken Fry (honest). Before you get the wrong idea, I loved her, I was committed to her. In my head we were going to grow old together. My concern was the word – marriage.