My new man is wickedly smart, stunning and sincere. The problem is our relationship is developing on an emotional, spiritual and intellectual level but not in the bedroom. I know it is because he has an unusually small penis and have done everything I can to convince him that this does not bother me. What can I say other than I am head over heels. Please tell me I am not crazy and how I can make him trust me enough to take it all the way.
SingleEdition.com Sex and Intimacy Expert Cathy Beaton's Answer:This situation must be very frustrating for you.
I didn’t want to be a stripper.
Really, I have no idea what I wanted from the exotic dance class I’d
enrolled in at an adult education center. I didn’t know whether the
course catalog’s promise to help “create a full repertoire of
floor-routine and chair moves you can use in enticing performances” was
an achievable or even worthwhile goal. But there I was in a leotard
and stilettos, undulating my hips against an inert and perfectly
innocent chair.
The first order of business on day one was to pick our stripper
names. The gaggle of married lady friends in matching pink leotards
seemed to be in a geographical mood, seeing as how they chose names
like Savannah, Sierra and Asia. The mousy woman recently dumped by her
boyfriend chose Sexy Sadie because it was her ex’s favorite Beatles
song. The pretty but uptight Indian woman apparently didn’t grasp the
smutty aspect of the renaming process because she replaced her
