Do you consider you underwear choice when and if you go to church? This week YourTango users were especially fired up over a Traditional Love post asking if men are to blame for having "impure" thoughts or should women—particularly scantily clad women—take some responsibility? The latter thought is what leads to dress codes in institutions and even across cultures. As you might have guessed, men and women had different opinions. YourTango user btoenges related:
I was writing an e-workbook for a teleclass I was going to give on the topic of forgiveness. As I always approach this type of writing project, I wrote down my thoughts about where I’ve been, how I moved forward and where I am now in regards to the topic. Forgiveness is one of those areas that bring up a lot of emotion, justification, awareness, stubbornness, hurt feelings, etc. But as I sat writing down my thoughts the following imagery exercise came to mind: Have Your Forgiven Yourself?
Dear Dr. Romance: My husband and I married more than five years ago, in our early 30s. We had a good marriage. We agreed that if we would sit down and talk things out should we have issues. We always held true to that until his mom died several months ago. He was very close to his mom but she had cancer. I cared for her for a year and a half. She died sooner than expected, and when she died - he became very distant, and could not sit still at the house - he always wanted to be doing something.
If, at times, you find your budget is too tight to go to dinner and a movie, then you may need to reevaluate your budget. Everyone is saying the economy is slow, but what's the point in searching for a quality date if you are only able to pay for the value menu. Lets look at some household bills you can focus on reducing in order to open up a few more funds for your love life. Car Insurance
Does your place look like a bachelor pad? That's good right? You are a bachelor. Yes, meeting a successful bachelor is a plus, as long as your place doesn't look like five 12 year olds live there alone. If you bring a woman home will she feel comfortable taking off her clothes without the fear of catching some disease?
Valentine’s Day just passed, how did you do? Were you a gift giving god or did you fall short? If she gasped and cried and couldn't stop telling her friends about her Valentine's Day experience, then congratulations! If not, there is room for improvement. Let's look at some tips for next year or your next celebration (anniversary, birthday, etc). If you tend to have trouble remembering all of the special dates consider using an online planner to remind you.
“Once you go through a high conflict divorce you are never the same,” said Dana in a recent interview. Dana divorced her husband in 1999. Her ex, Jim had been diagnosed with Narcissistic Personality Disorder and he has made Dana’s life miserable for over 12 years. Due to the long, drawn out legal battle and Jim’s emotional abuse before and since the divorce Dana was recently diagnosed with Post Traumatic Stress Disorder. She is being treated as an inpatient and discussed what life has been like for her over the last few years.
Letting go of the past really hit home for a lot of my readers. Stats on my website spiked over the past two days as people really looked into the effect dragging around the heavy stuff of yesterday is having on today. If you're feeling stuck, frustrated or like something really needs to change in your life time to do an inventory:
Merging household goods or stuffs can be a provoking undertaking at any stage of life. However, there are some uncomplicated steps that can make the move easy and smooth: Make a list of all the household items and furniture you have and make a decision what is the best to keep for your new residence. Match rooms with existing furniture for the style you want to achieve.
Instead, to the previous one we add: stress, boredom, cold, to keep company. The consequences for a disordered eating: gaining weight, overspending, eating disordered diseases… Under stress people tend to act differently than in normal situation, even their attitude, personality changes, they become a different person. Stress situations: exams, job-related, personal life problems, I’m sure you all are familiar with them.