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She is Just Fed Up

She is Just Fed Up

This is a long story sorry..... I have made the worst mess of my life. I've been with a girl 4 years she is now 34, the last year I moved to a different country to be with her, I stayed at her place where she lives with her sister, only temporarily, but ended up living there & basically I sat around while she did everything for me, getting my visa sorted etc. -

couple meditating together

How To Meditate Together

Meditation is a wonderful practice that I strongly recommend for everyone. Ten minutes a day is all it takes. There are quite a few fabulous benefits to meditation: clear thinking, better sleep, improved mood, increased intuition, more energy, less anxiety — just to name a few. So even if you are single, I suggest that you start meditating every day. If you are partnered perhaps either you haven’t felt as connected as you used to or things are going great but you want to make them even better. In either case, meditating together daily, or as often as possible, could make a big difference in the quality of your relationship.

Set Yourself Free from Restrictions

Set Yourself Free from Restrictions

Restrictions may be held deeper than you realize….. Working with my clients over the last few years, I've come to realize that most individuals say what they think they believe and know but ultimately don't embody the belief. Here’s an example. John hurt himself while doing yard work this week. He has had past issues with neck pain and a lower back ache for a long time.

11th March Best day to propose your Girl Friend

11th March Best day to propose your Girl Friend

Today 11th March the second month of Valentine which just started two days back. Love has started floating in the atmosphere and igniting everybody’s heart for their true love. So go and get going, because this is the day you had waited since last year, if you failed to say your feeling today to your soul mate, then you will miss them. Don’t rely on any other’s Propose day ideas or any quotes, just move with your original feelings for your partners, and say it to them.

Sex Toys and Pregnancy

Sex Toys and Pregnancy

People often wonder if it is safe to use a sex toy during pregnancy. The whole subject of sex during pregnancy can be a difficult topic to explore with couples and women, as it is a private one, and many people have questions about sex in pregnancy but are too embarrassed to ask. Having examined the literature that is readily available to midwives, it is interesting to see that there is nothing which has addressed this as a specific research question. There are several research articles related to sex but not the use of sex toys such as vibrators.

Confused

Confused

My fiance and I have been together for 3 and a half years and have known each other for almost 5 years. We moved in together in May of 2010. I found out about a week after we moved in together that he had been watching porn everyday for our entire relationship. This realllly hurt me. I had found porn early on in our relationship, we had talked about it, and he said he wouldn't do it and then I find out he's been doing it EVERYDAY for 3 years....

Belligerent Flirting

Belligerent Flirting

Turning the tables in this game we call dating. I've been followed on the street, screamed at, asked repeatedly, lied to, manipulated and physically accosted by men persuant of the nana.  When a woman employs even remotely aggressive tactics to achieve the intended attention of a possible lover, why is she labeled desperate? Chicks are offered dick on a daily basis. Not typically by those we are necessarily desirous of so a man should be very appreciative of being singled out for attention.

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Dear Wendy, How Many Sex Partners Is Too Many?

Recently I was talking to my 21-year-old boyfriend about how many sexual partners was considered "too many." I told him how there was a 21-year-old guy friend who says he’s had over 20 partners but they had each meant something to him so he didn’t see a problem with it; only when you have meaningless sex does it become a problem, he said. Most of my other friends, especially my girl friends, only have had a couple partners, and I have always thought that was the norm for most people my age. When I asked my boyfriend how many he thought was “too many,” he said that if you lose count, then that’s when it becomes too much. He also said that he’s had nine and didn’t think that that was a lot at all. I personally have only had one other partner, and when I found out that he had nine, it kind of took me by surprise. I’m not mad and don’t think any differently of my boyfriend or my friend than I did before, but I’m just curious, what do most people consider to be too many partners and at what age? — Number Cruncher

woman's legs and shoes

First Date Fashion: What Your Shoes Say About You

Whether your favourite pair of shoes is a sexy stiletto or sporty sneakers; your shoes speak volumes about your personality. Girls love to buy new shoes for a hot date, but many are unaware of the importance of shoes in sending out messages about themselves. All shoes convey some sort of message about our personalities and tendencies. When women are going on a first date they often pay far more attention to what designer clothing they are going to wear whithout realising what huge difference a well selected pair of shoes can make. The stats show that the average woman has approximately 25 pairs, and each can send a different signal.