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The Anatomy of the "Penis Man"

The Anatomy of the "Penis Man"

Let me start by saying that this is not one of those estrogen-inspired male-bashing articles.I happen to have a very healthy respect for testosterone and for the vessels which carry it in abundance; namely men. After all I happen to live with four of these testoosterone carriers and have definitely survived to tell the tale. Not to take credit for the term "penis man" I must admit to having heard a guy use it several years ago. Admittedly it struck a chord back then, as I'm sure it will with you readers right now.

Woman cleaning mad

My Husband Treats Me Like A Maid

My husband and I recently celebrated our 20 year anniversary. I bought my husband a small gift and when I ask what he got me- he told me I was not worth getting anything. This really hurt, my husband does not show any kind of affection or consideration for other people's feelings. When he is confronted he just replies "You knew this when you married me." But this is the least of the problems: he refuses to "man up" and be a father to his two boys- the older one is about to graduate from high school and constantly is getting in trouble and my youngest son is in his early teens. My husband talks down women in general and my older son has learned from this and absolutely hates any kind of authority especially from women. I can't talk to him because he acts and says everything just like my husband- he is an exact clone of my husband!! When I ask my husband for help with the kids, he says I am shitting on him by telling him my problems with the kids and to just leave him alone. I really can't go on living like this. I feel like I am a maid and a sex toy not a wife. Any advice would be very helpful.

Sugar daddy

Dear Wendy, Should I Take On A Sugar Daddy?

I met this guy who proposed that he basically become my sugar daddy in exchange for sex. I told him I was into friends with benefits sex with no strings attached for free, but he told me he likes to spoil women. I don't think there is anything wrong with this and it actually excites me. He really wants to buy me things because he wants me so bad. I would give him sexual pleasure without the gifts, but is it crazy to take his gifts too? I'm looking for a no-strings-attached sexual relationship now anyway, but this one comes with perks. He offered me $75 for a pair of my used panties one morning. Do you think anything is wrong with this? He's professional and sane, but doesn't have time for a girlfriend — according to him. Regardless, I don't want to be anyone's girlfriend right now anyway. Am I crazy for doing this or should I just be living it up?

Online Speed Dating

Online Speed Dating

That it is said there are three types of people When It Comes to the relationship status. The second is a child or person would keep on making and breaking up relationships. And the burden is never pursuing any relationship. When we see people you-can finds all theses three characters out there. Also some people find it Difficult to Maintain relationships. They are unstable in their relationship in the Majority of their lives. Would one think why it is too difficult for them to maintain a relationship?

To boldly go

To boldly go

If my life were a television show, the opening sequence would include “To boldly go where few ever do”; and “boldly” is the key word in that line. So many social challenges for which men seek my help can be corrected if they simply learn the art of being bold.

Out of the Starting Gate

Out of the Starting Gate

"But HOW do I let go?" is the main question readers posed after reading my three part series on "Letting Go in Kathmandu."  I love having a process to follow.  Give me step one, step two, step three and I can make it happen...that's the do-er in me.  It's what I loved about being in school.  At the beginning of the year, you got a syllabus listing all the requirements for papers, exams and class participation.  If you followed the formul

What Shoppers Look For In A Good Vibrator

What Shoppers Look For In A Good Vibrator

What are the most important features to look for when you shop for a vibrator? In a recent discussion forum discussing the topic of vibrators, participants were asked that question. Most of the respondents stated that quality construction, multi-speed vibrations, quiet motor, and being made of body safe materials. Many of the participants had experiences with cheaper vibrators that fell a part after a few users or had vibrators that stopped turning on.

Happy day!

Happy day!

Today I went to antenatal care and my baby was 9 weeks.I'm glad my child is healthy and growing well. This afternoon, I told my husband and he was very happy to hear. I lost 3 pounds but I will try to eat healthy for children.

Unplanned Pregnancy: Learn the Basics Fast!

Unplanned Pregnancy: Learn the Basics Fast!

Being well informed about pregnancy will help you make the best decision for you. You don’t know whether to be scared or excited or both. Here, in a very brief and compact form, is your Pregnancy Information 101 leaflet. Remember, it’s very brief, so not all the information will be included. As you go along, jot down questions you may have so you can look them up in other sources when you have more time, or so you can ask your doctor. How to Confirm You’re Pregnant