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To boldly go

To boldly go

If my life were a television show, the opening sequence would include “To boldly go where few ever do”; and “boldly” is the key word in that line. So many social challenges for which men seek my help can be corrected if they simply learn the art of being bold.

Out of the Starting Gate

Out of the Starting Gate

"But HOW do I let go?" is the main question readers posed after reading my three part series on "Letting Go in Kathmandu."  I love having a process to follow.  Give me step one, step two, step three and I can make it happen...that's the do-er in me.  It's what I loved about being in school.  At the beginning of the year, you got a syllabus listing all the requirements for papers, exams and class participation.  If you followed the formul

What Shoppers Look For In A Good Vibrator

What Shoppers Look For In A Good Vibrator

What are the most important features to look for when you shop for a vibrator? In a recent discussion forum discussing the topic of vibrators, participants were asked that question. Most of the respondents stated that quality construction, multi-speed vibrations, quiet motor, and being made of body safe materials. Many of the participants had experiences with cheaper vibrators that fell a part after a few users or had vibrators that stopped turning on.

Happy day!

Happy day!

Today I went to antenatal care and my baby was 9 weeks.I'm glad my child is healthy and growing well. This afternoon, I told my husband and he was very happy to hear. I lost 3 pounds but I will try to eat healthy for children.

Unplanned Pregnancy: Learn the Basics Fast!

Unplanned Pregnancy: Learn the Basics Fast!

Being well informed about pregnancy will help you make the best decision for you. You don’t know whether to be scared or excited or both. Here, in a very brief and compact form, is your Pregnancy Information 101 leaflet. Remember, it’s very brief, so not all the information will be included. As you go along, jot down questions you may have so you can look them up in other sources when you have more time, or so you can ask your doctor. How to Confirm You’re Pregnant

A man ogles a woman in a short skirt.

Community Spotlight: You're Showing Too Much Skin

Do you consider you underwear choice when and if you go to church? This week YourTango users were especially fired up over a Traditional Love post asking if men are to blame for having "impure" thoughts or should women—particularly scantily clad women—take some responsibility? The latter thought is what leads to dress codes in institutions and even across cultures. As you might have guessed, men and women had different opinions. YourTango user btoenges related:

Can You "Imagine" Forgiving Him?

Can You "Imagine" Forgiving Him?

I was writing an e-workbook for a teleclass I was going to give on the topic of forgiveness. As I always approach this type of writing project, I wrote down my thoughts about where I’ve been, how I moved forward and where I am now in regards to the topic. Forgiveness is one of those areas that bring up a lot of emotion, justification, awareness, stubbornness, hurt feelings, etc. But as I sat writing down my thoughts the following imagery exercise came to mind: Have Your Forgiven Yourself?

Dear Dr. Romance: I just want my husband and best friend back

Dear Dr. Romance: I just want my husband and best friend back

Dear Dr. Romance: My husband and I married more than five years ago, in our early 30s. We had a good marriage. We agreed that if we would sit down and talk things out should we have issues. We always held true to that until his mom died several months ago. He was very close to his mom but she had cancer. I cared for her for a year and a half. She died sooner than expected, and when she died - he became very distant, and could not sit still at the house - he always wanted to be doing something.

Save Money for Dates: Which Bills You Can Reduce

Save Money for Dates: Which Bills You Can Reduce

If, at times, you find your budget is too tight to go to dinner and a movie, then you may need to reevaluate your budget. Everyone is saying the economy is slow, but what's the point in searching for a quality date if you are only able to pay for the value menu. Lets look at some household bills you can focus on reducing in order to open up a few more funds for your love life. Car Insurance