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How to be more successful at online dating

How to be more successful at online dating

When I was online dating, I saw the profile of a really good-looking man. Good news - we shared countless interests! He liked to cycle, rollerblade, swim, hike, ski, kayak and, generally, play outside. So did I – what a match (did I mention he was good-looking?). There was just one teeny hitch. He made it very clear – and I mean in no uncertain terms – that he played outside day and night, dusk until dawn, 365 days a year. I play a couple of hours at a time.

7 Questions To Ask On A First Date

7 Questions To Ask On A First Date

Have you ever had great conversation with a potential mate for hours on the telephone and decided to go out on an official date? Thus far , you think you have all the answers leading up to your date, but wait there are more questions? During dinner the lights are low, candles are glowing on the table and the moment is cozy; however now it is time to really let the "questions" begin.

Obey Your Dating Dealbreakers

Obey Your Dating Dealbreakers

While watching a "Millionaire Matchmaker" marathon today, I was reminded of an important dating tidbit that I consider the foundation for finding true love, and that most people forget about or ignore: DEALBREAKERS. Everyone looking for a healthy relationship with a future should make a list of dealbreakers. A great example is, "Does he/she want kids someday?" If you want kids and your partner doesn't, run! Chances are your partner isn't going to change, and forcing him/her into a situation will only cause resentment.

Breaking the Illusion of the Perfect Dating Site

Breaking the Illusion of the Perfect Dating Site

So you’ve finally gone and done it by filling out the contact form at your chosen dating site of choice and you’re ready to meander your way to their pool of interesting and super sexy candidates.  It’s only then that you notice an abundance of supposedly real singles that live miraculously in your area and they are all astoundingly gorgeous.  In fact, one of them is actually messaging you right now.  Yeah um NO!  Okay, back to reality and actually finding a meaningful and successful match online.  It&rsqu

Online dating profiles that make you think.

Online dating profiles that make you think.

When I was a girl, I found my sister’s wig and soaked it in red dye. My goal was to wear it while gliding around and doing mime in some misguided attempt to be the next David Bowie (he studied mime). As I write this, I see that, perhaps, I had a lapse in logic or was undergoing some biochemical malfunction. Still, at the time, I thought my plan was solid and my rise to fame was certain. My sister, however, felt differently. Through my long and earnest explanation as to why I ruined her wig, she kept giving me the “What were you thinking!” look. We’ve all seen it.

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17 Ways To Impress Him On The First Date

When you're on a date, it's natural to want to impress him, but generally guys are pretty simple--if he likes how you look, sound, and smell, you shouldn't have to try too hard. But to keep your deck fully stacked, here are 17 ways to keep him coming back for more.

Personal Lubricants - Being Wetter Can Be Better

Personal Lubricants - Being Wetter Can Be Better

A woman's natural lubrication can vary due to a number of factors including stress, birth control pills, other medications, and menopause. A personal lubricant will increase the lubrication making penetration and also masturbation more pleasurable, instead of painful. Utilizing a personal lubricant can also make condoms for reliable and add sensation during intercourse. Studies show that not using a personal lubricant with a condom is the number one reason why condoms do break. What Kind of Personal Lubricant Are Available?

Making sure his stag weekend is a safe one

Making sure his stag weekend is a safe one

Stag parties and hen weekends are one of the most important events in the lead up to the big day. It's supposedly the last time you'll have the chance to really let your hair down with all of your friends, and anyone who is plannning a hen or stag party knows how important it is to make the party or weekend memorable for the bride or groom to be.

But My Relationship is Different!

But My Relationship is Different!

I’ve been there. I know the feeling. You just can’t believe it’s possible that anyone else has gone through what you’re currently dealing with. You and your situation are so indescribably unique that it would be impossible for someone to see things from your eyes. “You don’t understand, I’ve never felt this way with anyone before. There was such an amazing spark, and so much chemistry, he just has to be the one, why can’t he see that?”