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Why Men Should Love Not Fear Their Lady's Sex Toys

Why Men Should Love Not Fear Their Lady's Sex Toys

If your girlfriend or wife expresses interest in using or sex toy, or if you have found out that she has being using one, do not be alarmed. The use of a sex toy does not mean that she is not satisfied in the relationship. Nor does it mean that you should feel intimidated by her vibrator in any way. The use of sex toys has become more popular with women who are in relationships too. However, there have been times when a woman has returned her adult product because her husband or boyfriend was upset that she purchased one in the first place.

The Evolution of Valentines Day

The Evolution of Valentines Day

Valentines Day is celebrated every February 14th by millions of couples and some hopeful singles. It has become the busiest day for florists as long stem red roses are the stand out gift of choice. The secret admirer card has taken a back seat due to rapid advances in technology. People now tend to send valentines through social networking sites or by emailing e cards. Other common gift choices include chocolates, diamonds, lingerie, and anything with a floral scent or in the shape of a heart.

The Break-Up Text

The Break-Up Text

There was a Sex in the City episode a few years ago where Berger broke up with Carrie by Post-it Note. That is, rather than telling her to her face that he wanted out of the relationship, he wrote it on a Post-it Note and left it for her to find the next morning after he'd left.  Everybody --on the show and in real life-- agreed it was a pretty lousy move. (Everybody = women). 

Husband cheated?  Avoid These Common Impulsive Mistakes!

Husband cheated? Avoid These Common Impulsive Mistakes!

When I found out about my husband’s affair I was so shocked I just wanted to pack my things and run. An affair was not even a possible scenario in my life. Without talking to him, without even getting him to admit – I knew right there and then that I could never trust him again and that this marriage was over. I felt angry, stupid, disillusioned, betrayed and my self confidence just disappeared. I couldn’t stop imagining him intimate with someone – much smarter, funnier, younger (of course…) and better looking than me.

Asian Women Refusing Marriage - The Effects of Saying "No"

Asian Women Refusing Marriage - The Effects of Saying "No"

These two articles from The Economist are both long and excellent, with lots of graphs and in-depth reporting, so I won't keep you from reading them by writing a wordy post. The first article is more of an over view of what's going on with half the world's women. The second one is more in-depth, exploring all the possibilities, and, an especially nice touch, refusing to consider Asia as a uniform giant, instead recognizing there are several different traditional patterns of marriage, multiple attitudes towards women's education, contraception use, and women&#39

Tween Dating 101

Tween Dating 101

If you were to talk with your tweens about dating and going to school, have you ever thought about how the conversation would turn out? As a youth speaker, I am commonly broached with these types of questions from teens when parents don't address the topic at home. How soon is too soon to date? What are the rules? When can I date? Yes, as the babies get older their hormones do begin to kick into gear with topics that include dating.

Tween Dating 101

Tween Dating 101

If you were to talk with your tweens about dating and going to school, have you ever thought about how the conversation would turn out? As a youth speaker, I am commonly broached with these types of questions from teens when parents don't address the topic at home. How soon is too soon to date? What are the rules? When can I date? Yes, as the babies get older their hormones do begin to kick into gear with topics that include dating.