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Confessions of a Bad (-ish) Girl

Confessions of a Bad (-ish) Girl

I’m not a good girl.  I’m not exactly bad.  But, man, am I miles away from being good. On my way to work last week, I watched a blonde Goody Two Shoes step onto my train.  She was one of those dimpled, bright-eyed innocents who smiles so chastely and courteously at passersby, you’d think she was about to curtsy.  As opposed to me in my knee-high boots and rumpled leather jacket, she wore pearls, a pretty headband and a blouse that apparently had been ironed.  Hell, she was wearing a blouse.  The gal was darn sweet reading her Martha Stewart Living magazine and grinning like a Girl Scout. Maybe Goody Two Shoes has a whole world of mayhem inside her.  Maybe she secretly pulls the wings from butterflies and is a monster in the sack.  But the fact is there are “ladies” out there.  And I’m not one of them. I’m not a bad girl.  I can hold down a job, I don’t have an unhealthy relationship with substances, my friends can count on me. 

Looking for someone real on online.

Looking for someone real on online.

What does "real" mean? Real as in not phony or real as in not inflatable? For that matter, does someone "not real" really care what you want?

She Threatened Me Over The Phone

She Threatened Me Over The Phone

My ex-boyfriends current girlfriend had the nerve to call my phone the other day and threaten me, demanding me to never speak to her boyfriend again!

Community: 3 Things To Know Before Getting Married

Community: 3 Things To Know Before Getting Married

Getting married is a big step. Even starting a new relationship with someone is kind of like jumping into the pool feet first. Is there anything you can do to keep a relationship or marriage from ending badly? Is there anything you should know before getting married or starting a new relationship, so you can have the best chance at success?