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BLIND DATES, to go or not to go ? that is the question

BLIND DATES, to go or not to go ? that is the question

I am recently single and ONLY just starting to getting over my BF of 3 years .. by "get over" i mean,, im now able to fight the temptation of calling him and telling him how much i miss/love/want him back. So my mates thought it would be fun if i went out on a blind date :) and she just went for it and set me up with this guy who sounds great on one condition, that aslong as i can, i should put off adding him to my facebook. I havent met the guy YET but so far, he sounds like a nice guy..

BJ Expectation

BJ Expectation

OK I guess it's true about the Blow Job expectation. A while a go I read an article on how guys when they go out on dates and at the end of it they expect blow jobs and I was like nah. Well a friend of mine J went out on a date with a BBW and he expected a BJ. She wasn't comfortable giving it to him so he left her. He told me he got up, pulled up his pants and walked away without saying a word. I was like "You did what?". He says that if he is not going to get laid he at least expects a BJ from the chicks.

How does healthy love feel?

How does healthy love feel?

I see couples every day, in every form. I breaks my heart that I'm 42 and single. I've lost hope for myself that I'll every have a healthy relationship. When I actually gave it some thought, I discovered that many of the relationships that I observed weren't healthy. Not the kind of existence I would want with a partner.  

5 Lines That Scream "Ruuuuun!"

5 Lines That Scream "Ruuuuun!"

1. I don't want anything serious. Unless you legitimately just want sex, you should run the second you hear this line. Otherwise, two years down the line, your partner may still assume you're dating lightly while you're Photoshopping expensive wedding gowns to your full-length Facebook photos. Even if you think you don't want anything serious, you're probably just lying to yourself. After age 25, most people want to be in a meaningful relationship that's actually going somewhere.

Why You Really Do Need a Safety Plan - Part I

Why You Really Do Need a Safety Plan - Part I

Why this series: I talk about safety planning a lot because I'm a domestic violence advocate and the women who come to the nonprofit where I offer my time are trying to modify or leave relationships that have more than the usual problems. Yet the response I often get, even from someone who has just been in court asking for a Restraining Order against her spouse (same thing as a Protective Order), is "No, I don't need to do any safety planning. I have it covered."

Dr. Romance on dealing with disappointment

Dr. Romance on dealing with disappointment

OK, so you're disappointed. Your dream has ended in the trashbin. So, after you get finished with laying on the floor, kicking your heels, and screaming; or going on a drunken binge, or beating someone up, you find you're still disappointed, and all that acting out hasn't fixed anything. Now what do you do? Disappointment is a dead-end in your road. Now you need to figure out a new direction. Here are some hints:

Dear Dr. Romance: I'm terrified to recommit

Dear Dr. Romance: I'm terrified to recommit

Dear Dr. Romance: I'm in my mid-twenties and a professional. I recently broke up from a bad relationship with my fiancee, and lost everything. Its been sometime and I've moved on I'm doing well, but find myself attracted to a woman that is everything that I'm looking for, almost ten years my senior. She works in the same field, and understands me completely. She is someone I could marry and settle down with, but with pains from previous engagement I'm terrified to recommit. What should I do? Dear Reader:

A Romantic Evening In – Dating Without the Cost

A Romantic Evening In – Dating Without the Cost

While all of us would like to take our loved ones to the most expensive of five star restaurants and wine and dine them, unfortunately, it isn’t always possible due to the price tag. But just because you can’t go out doesn’t mean you shouldn’t date! An evening in can be one of the most intimate and close dates you will experience. It gives you an opportunity not only to impress with your cooking and planning excellence but also to experience each other in a quiet, private setting.

8 Tips Smart Women Know about Living “Happily Ever After”

8 Tips Smart Women Know about Living “Happily Ever After”

While most of us want to believe in the happily ever after ending, it sometimes takes a lot of work and effort to get there. With the news media feeding us frequent stories of celebrities who can’t seem to make their relationships work, it’s no wonder everyday couples who don’t have an abundance of money or fame are struggling to keep their marriage alive. With the national statistic for divorce in the United States still holding at 50 percent, we don’t have reason to believe that fairytale endings exist anymore.