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Dr. Romance on How to Have Happier Holidays

Dr. Romance on How to Have Happier Holidays

Dr. Romance writes: No matter what you observe (Kwanzaa, Chanukah, Solstice or Christmas), this is a celebratory time of year. For some it's a joy, but for others it's a nightmare and pressure to spend too much, eat too much, and socialize in ways you don't like. If your holiday expectations are out of line with what you can really accomplish, you'll be stressed. Holidays can be the best of times and the worst of times. Holiday rituals, thoughtfully done, can be a source of bonding and strength. De-Stress the Holiday

Why You’re Still Single: The Math

Why You’re Still Single: The Math

    One day in 1999, researcher Tristan Miller decided that he would never, ever find a girlfriend. As a tech genius with a sense of humor, he decided to do a comprehensive analysis to show why this might be the case. His conclusion was simple: the math simply wasn’t in his favor. Using census data from 1998, he concluded that there was a 1 in 18,726 chance of finding “the one.” Below is a simplified version of his logic.

A very simple truth.......

A very simple truth.......

So many of you are getting so hurt and confused over a concept that's actually very very simple. YOU CAN'T CHANGE SOMEONE, ONLY WHETHER OR NOT YOU ARE WITH THEM! If you want to get drunk, then get drunk, if not then don't! Don't cry if you become an alcoholic. If you want to smoke then do it, if not then don't! Don't cry if you get lung cancer. If you want to take drugs then do it, if not then don't! Don't cry if you OD (Actually you can't, you're dead)

5 Guys to Avoid When Dating

5 Guys to Avoid When Dating

1. Hit-and-Run You can spot this type by the mattress that appears to be strapped to his back. He is confident and sexy and knows it. His hair is perfect, his smell alluring, and his body is rock-hard. He has the uncanny ability to sweep you off your feet…and flat onto your back. You rationalize. “I’ll just use HIM for sex. It will be different with me. I’m a big girl. I know what I’m doing. But afterwards you wonder what happened. Your friends may have warned you – his friends may even have warned you. You knew you knew better.

Rules to Life: 3 L's and a S

Rules to Life: 3 L's and a S

     Yes, there is no guide to life, and things sometimes may not go the way you plan. Wait, let me correct myself, things NEVER go the way you plan them! Thats life, and we have to deal with that for 7 days a week, 52 weeks a year, and 365 days a year until the day we die.

Top 5 Worst Wedding Themes

Top 5 Worst Wedding Themes

White Trash Wedding Now it’s one thing if you feel incredibly strong and proud of your humble roots and feel compelled to represent your blatant disrespect for political correctness and authority on your Wedding Day. However, if it’s just an excuse for your future husband to grow a dirty stache and sideburns we suggest you rethink your theme (and possibly your groom.)