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Broke up with my girlfriend after 9yrs. I have been dating someone for the past 3 months but find myself thinking about my ex. Wondering if i should go back. However the new girl treats me sooooo nice. Need some help need some advice

Dating Online - Where to Look Online

Dating Online - Where to Look Online

Every time you turn around, it seems like there’s yet another Internet dating/matchmaking service to try, and although many of them promise to be distinctively well above the competition, the reality is that most of them are virtually the same, with many of them being populated with the same members. Where’s the Earnest Money?

Going Through a Nasty Divorce? 5 Things You Should Know

Going Through a Nasty Divorce? 5 Things You Should Know

If you’re one of the many couples trying to navigate the difficult waters of divorce, you know as well as anyone how emotionally draining it is. No two divorces are exactly alike, and you will have situations you have to deal with that no one you know will have gone through before. If your divorce looks like it’s going to be more difficult than you anticipated due to an uncooperative spouse, there are a few things you should know. 1. Your Case is Yours

Why Take Up Horse Riding as a Hobby

Why Take Up Horse Riding as a Hobby

For many centuries, horse riding has been a popular activity in many countries, especially in the United Kingdom. Even then, the skill of riding, driving and hurdling with horses has always been something that has appealed to many people. Horse riding, also known as equestrianism and horseback riding, has evolved from practical working purposes and transportation, to artistic and recreational activities and competitive sport.

Want Your Sex Life to Be More Satisfying?  Lose Weight!

Want Your Sex Life to Be More Satisfying? Lose Weight!

The truth is we all want to feel sexy, right? We all want to feel confident with our bodies. We all want to be desired by our significant others, and we all want to be pursued by our significant others. That simply feels really good. And if you don't feel good about your body and you don't feel sexual and sensual, you are not alone. According to the Journal of Sexual Medicine, 30% of women in their 40s and 50% of women in their 50s haven't had sex in over a year.

Clean Break: Make Your Divorce as Painless as Possible

Clean Break: Make Your Divorce as Painless as Possible

Divorces can be very messy, but they don’t have to be. Going through a divorce will never be enjoyable, but there are ways to make it clean and reduce the stress associated with it. Knowing how to make the divorce easier on the entire family can be beneficial to both partners and any children. Accept the Emotions

I'm Boycotting the Hollywood 'Meet-Cute' Story

I'm Boycotting the Hollywood 'Meet-Cute' Story

Your hands brush while reaching for the same avocado at Whole Foods and it's love at first sight. You lock eyes at an art gallery and elope that day. You spill coffee on him on your way to work, he finds your klutziness impossibly charming, and you live happily ever after. It's called a meet-cute—a scenario in which potential romantic partners meet in an especially adorable, whimsical, impossibly romantic way—and though romantic comedies would have you believe that this is how people meet and fall in love all the time in real life, you yourself can probably

Fights, Arguments, and Conflicts Will Kill You--Literally

Fights, Arguments, and Conflicts Will Kill You--Literally

If you live a life of arguments, fighting, and conflicts in your family and at work, you are killing yourself. Danish researchers have found that people who fight and argue suffer 10 times more cancer, diabetes, heart disease, and are 2 to 3 times more likely to die than those who do not. The findings still held when chronic disease, depressive symptoms, age, sex, marital status, support from social relations, and social and economic position were taken into account.

Putting A Baby Up For Adoption When You Already Have Kids

Putting A Baby Up For Adoption When You Already Have Kids

Adoption is a wonderful thing. Not only does it allow a childless couple the opportunity to have a child of their own, but it also enables a birth parent to give their baby a better life. And, yet, adoption is a difficult topic to bring up--particularly with the children that you decided to keep. Your "first born" If you put your first child up for adoption, but went on to have a family later on, you are not alone. As women become older, better emotionally prepared for motherhood, and more financially secure, they often decide to keep the children conceived after the adoption.