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Are you friends with your man?

The Friendship Foundation & Why It's So Important

Hot sex is great, but friendship lasts forever.

Sexual attraction is one of those things that we all want to feel with our partners. There is nothing like that electrical current that draws two people together like magnets. But when it comes to the overall success and failure of long-term relationships, how important is that attraction when compared to deep friendship between partners?

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What do you fantasize about?

4 Sexual Fantasies Gone Horribly Awry

Don't let your sexual fantasies ruin the mood.

Trying to spice things up with your partner? Unsure about suggesting role play or fantasy? Well, as thrilling as fantasies can be, the potential for trouble also exists.

The Key To Improving Your Relationships

The Key To Improving Your Relationships

It's as easy as listening to what your partner is saying.

The best relationship advice I can give is about making the effort to truly understanding each other. Most of us want to be listened to and understood, but do we really listen to ourselves and to others? This is a real skill that can be learned and developed over time. It occurs most frequently and most effectively when we set time aside to really tune in to each other or, in meditation, to ourselves.

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How do you prevent infidelity?

The Trick To Preventing Infidelity In Your Relationship

Are you ready to affair-proof your relationship?

When a marriage or any romantic relationship sours, an affair is a painful yet convenient way to escape. It's easy to blame the affair, blame the person the affair was with or basically blame everything except the real problem: that someone's needs were not being met, so that person found a way to have them met elsewhere.

3 Ways To Date Like A Man
Give him a taste of his own medicine.

3 Ways To Date Like A Man

Read on to learn how to act like a lady and date like a man.

Are you tired of men playing games in the dating world? Well I say, "If you can't beat them at their own game, join them." Sometimes the best way to land a man is by giving him a taste of his own medicine.

State Of The Union – Your Union

State Of The Union – Your Union

The President's State of the Union is over – what would be part of yours if given about your union?

In political chambers throughout the country, including in our national Capitol, political leaders give annual addresses to talk about how we are doing and what challenges we need to face in the year ahead.  Thinking about the highlights offered in the State of the Union tonight, there are similar categories that you could use to evaluate your union.  How would you rate your marriage, domes

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Vulnerability can bring you closer together.

5 Steps To Opening Up Emotionally In Your Relationship

Expressing your emotions in a relationship isn't always easy, but it can be profoundly rewarding.

Do you find it hard to let yourself be vulnerable? Fear of intimacy is the main reason people do not open up emotionally with another person. There are a range of emotions and behaviors that can enhance the intimacy, or deepening, of your relationship.

Texting and Relationships: Are You Keeping Him Interested or Driv

Texting and Relationships: Are You Keeping Him Interested or Driv

Texting is great, but keep yourself in check so you keep him interested!

The art of texting in dating and relationships is a skill on which most of us could improve. In the age of constant contact via social media and especially texting, there are some Dating with Dignity guidelines to successfully navigate this world within your relationships. When it comes to texting and relationships, there’s a fine line between keeping him interested and driving him away. So are you guilty of over-texting your guy? Here are a few ways to find out:  

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Try these resolution replacements!

10 Resolutions To Replace The Ones You Already Broke

Admit it: You already broke your New Year's resolution, right?

When January rolls around, tradition suggests making all sorts of resolutions. However, they all have one thing on common: They get broken. Statistically, 25 percent of New Year's resolutions are broken in the first week, and 90 percent by the end of February!

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Yelling isn't the only thing you do that men hate.

3 Things You Do That Men Totally Hate

You may be getting on his nerves and not even know it.

While every man is an individual with unique and sometimes peculiar idiosyncrasies, there are certain, universal pet peeves that all men seem to share.

All People Communicate Poorly - Relationship Problems Start

All People Communicate Poorly - Relationship Problems Start

Why is it so damn difficult in understanding my partner?

I often get asked a question you all have wondered and probably asked yourself too. Why is it so damn difficult in understanding my partner? It should be easier than what it is, shouldn’t it? Once I get past the trivial issues like leaving the toilet seat up and misunderstandings in short statements that later get taken out of context, we’re left with the basics. Humans all communicate poorly. Think of it this way: it isn’t so much that you have trouble understanding your loved one.