Most people give up or leave angry and hurt when their desires aren't met. There's a better solution
The most destructive and most common challenge I hear from my clients is when their partner's don’t exhibit the same level of desire for each other. It’s always one of the following two conversations.
She’s too needy.
He wants to do everything with me and it’s suffocating.
I feel like I can never satisfy her.
I love him but I also need my own life and I feel guilty because I’m never enough for him.
Thinking of taking a love compatibility test? Here are some important facts to be aware of.
According to a poll by WhatsYourPrice.com, 60 percent of women 'test' their significant others to see if the relationship will last. As the co-owner of a company with one of the few scientifically proven love compatibility tests, I feel that it's important to set the record straight when it comes to predicting the future of a relationship.
Should you continue to date someone if you are feeling no butterflies or attraction? Read more!
Should you continue to date someone if you are feeling no butterflies in your stomach or attraction? This is a complicated question and one that is worth taking time to study. Look at your previous attractions and see if the people you dated were good for you or lowered your self-esteem. Just because you are have high chemistry with someone doesn’t mean that it will be long-lasting relationship good for you. Similar to sweets, we may love to load up on them but are they nourishing us?
How do you go from overwhelm to finding that special person who truly makes your load feel lighter?
I heard a great story years ago about a kid whose mom asked him to make her some eggs. She instructed him to scramble one and fry the other. He, being a “good egg” and of course wanting to please his mother, did just that. He stood and beamed proudly before his mother, presenting her with what he understood to be the answer to her heart’s (or stomach’s, if you will) desire; eggs, one scrambled, the other perfectly fried! “Oh. NO!” she protested.
Over 40 & dating? Don't worry about butterflies; more important things at stake on early dates.
I read this quote recently: I love that feeling of being in love, the effect of having butterflies when you wake up in the morning. That is special. ~ Jennifer Aniston
I love her, and no offense meant, but how has that butterfly-thing been working for Jen so far?
How we react to a break-up is up to us. Staying positive we will find the gift and the silver lining
Everything Comes To An End
The one thing we can be sure of iin life is change. People die. Jobs and careers end. Relationships fall apart. We fall out of love and marriages fail. It seems that endings are coming faster these days than ever before. How can we look at the end of a relationship with an enlightened perspective? In the face of pain and loss, is it possible to focus on the positive?