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These guys aren't creepy; they're just looking for their pheromone match.

What On Earth Is A Pheromone Party?

Los Angeles has picked up on the trend of dating by smell.

"Pheromones" (pronounced: fare-oh-moans; getting sexy already) are bio-chemical scents released by fauna and flora to elicit an involuntary response in cohorts, predators and prey. Traditionally, when we use the word, we mean sex pheromones, i.e. the olfactory version of singing Nine Inch Nail's "Closer" while looking you directly in the eye.

What You Don't Know Can Hurt You! [EXPERT]

What You Don't Know Can Hurt You! [EXPERT]

Find out what chemicals are lurking in your favorite products, and how to clean up your home & body.

Just a little tired all the time, dealing with vague aches and pains...or really sick? Is your body working overtime to keep you healthy? Maryanne has three live radio shows each week, and on Maryanne Live she interviewed Deanna Duke, whose journey to health led her to write The Non-Toxic Avenger. We think her results are so important that we're sharing them here.

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Would You Take A Pill To Forget About Your Breakup?

A new pill will be able to reduce future anxiety associated with painful memories.

Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind, starring Jim Carrey and Kate Winslet, is one of the most brilliant love stories ever. The '04 flick tells the story of Joel and Clementine, a couple who go through a painful break-up and end up having a procedure done that "erases" memories of their time together. Definitely something anyone who has ever been through a rough split may have fantasized about! And in the next 10 years, it may be something people can actually do.

Is A Furious 14 Year Old Holding Your Love Life Hostage?

Is A Furious 14 Year Old Holding Your Love Life Hostage?

First crushes in teen years predict relationship success. When was your first heart break?

Said: "I love to flirt."  (Heard: "I've got it and you don't.") Said:  "It's not my fault that guys are so easy'. (Heard: "I've got it and you don't stand a snowman's chance in hell of ever having it.") Said: "It's just the way I am." ( Heard: "I am made different than you. There's something wrong with you.")

Are Girl Friend Breakups Worse Than Boy Friend Breakups?

Are Girl Friend Breakups Worse Than Boy Friend Breakups?

How your brain is trained to avoid the heartache of breakups and what you can do to untie the knot.

Hurt feelings.  Or rather a life without hurt feelings is the holy grail of relationship prospecting.  At least that is true with the women who work with me.  Each type, Scarlett, Snow White and Rapunzel are shocked to discover they have aligned themselves with that belief.  There is a flawed premise hiding under every love sabotage habit.

After the Honeymoon is Over

After the Honeymoon is Over

As soon as the honeymoon is over, the power struggle begins. The power struggle can last a few months, or it can last the rest of their lives, depending on how each person deals with it.

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Discover Your "Type" (It Really Exists)

In dating and marriage personality type determines who makes a good match, says Helen Fisher.

Anthropologist Helen Fisher, author of Why Him? Why Her?: Finding Real Love by Understanding Your Personality Type, says that understanding your personality type can help you navigate the dating waters. Using genetics and neurochemistry Fisher identified four types: about Explorer, Builder, Negotiator and Director. Which are you?

The Size of His Package, Explained

The Size of His Package, Explained

Moms exposed to exposed to chemicals make sons with smaller junk.

News Flash: it's really bad for the baby when a pregnant mom is exposed to chemicals! But just how bad is it? New research says if the baby she's carrying is a boy, chemical exposure may cause him to be born with a smaller penis. The New York Post reports that chemicals in fire retardants, cosmetics, food wrappers and baby powder are called "endocrine disrupters" and can interfere with hormones. This means the size of your man's genitals may be affected (stunted, if you will) while he's still in the womb.

Why We Love

The science behind the romance.

Time put out a stellar issue on the science of romance, full of all sorts of good stuff. Here, the Cliffs Notes version of their "Why We Love" article: Men prefer large breasts and a low waist-to-hip ration, which indicate fertility. Push that baby out! Women look for men with muscular shoulders, broad chests, and a full beard, which are signs of strength and virility (and better providers for off-spring). Kissing could be a literal taste test for potential mates: Saliva has a compound that influences tissue rejection. Translation: You body can detect whether your kissing partner’s genetic makeup is too similar to yours, thus turning you off.