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A little "harmless flirting" could lead to a much bigger affair.

How Does An Affair Start? [EXPERT]

In his mind he is flattered, he thinks it's fun and exciting, and he knows it's a bit naughty!

Men are pretty unconscious about what makes them attractive. According to most women, it is not their looks that make them attractive, it is who they are and how they produce in the world. So...this married man goes to work and comes home and goes back to work the next day. At work there is a woman. She is single, attractive, smart, capable, speaks his language and someone who has time to pay attention to him. It starts as an innocent flirtation. What goes through his mind is something like "Let's see if I still have it!", so he starts flirting just to see what happens. Not a surprise, she responds by flirting back. This is the beginning of the affair.

5 Ways to Test if Your Partner Is Cheating

5 Ways to Test if Your Partner Is Cheating

Give him the cheating test to know for sure if he's being unfaithful.

Have you started getting that gut feeling something isn’t quite right? Do you wonder if he may be up to something with someone else? Well, you don’t have to wonder any longer. There are five ways to test if your partner is cheating and get an answer once and for all. Cheat Test #1: Over the Shoulder When your partner is on his phone, subtly walk behind him and jump to his cheek to give him a kiss.  

The Real Reason Why He Cheated

The Real Reason Why He Cheated

Are you ready to know the "Why!" of his cheating?

After the initial shock of finding out that he cheated, you may sit and wonder, “WHY!” Understanding the reason why he cheated on you can help you a great deal in your healing. The problem is that it’s not always easy to figure out what lead him to his betrayal. Why Men Cheat

5 Signs She’s Not Just a Friend

5 Signs She’s Not Just a Friend

Is she really "just a friend"?

Your boyfriend or husband has a new woman in his life and you’re not sure what to think. He says that they are just friends but you don’t feel quite sure about that. You can’t let go of the feeling there may be something else going on between them. Knowing the five signs of when a female friend isn’t just a friend will help you start looking out for more signs that your partner may be cheating on you. Sign #1: He Doesn’t Want You to Meet Her

How to Overcome a Cheating Relationship in 3 Steps

How to Overcome a Cheating Relationship in 3 Steps

You can finally get past the pain with these steps...

When someone cheats on you it’s like your whole world has crashed down on you. It’s hard to get up and continue on with your life. It’s possible though, you just need to know how to do it. Understanding how to help yourself will get you back on your feet and feeling stronger in no time.  Step #1: Allow Yourself to Feel the Pain

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They're turning to someone else in search of appreciation.

The #1 Reason Men Cheat [EXPERT]

If men don't cheat in order to trade up for a younger, hotter, blonder babe, then why do they?

We all know that men (and likely women for that matter) cheat because the sex isn't that good anymore or they've found something better elsewhere, right?