With the change of the season and the beginning of a new quarter, now is a good time to take a look at all those “New Year’s Resolutions”; what have you done towards accomplishing them? Did you forget about them? Are you tired of starting a task but not finishing it, or feeling stuck and unhappy? It is time to wake up and bloom during this spring. Spring is typically a season most people think that rebirth and renewal happens. Yes that means it is time to get up off your butt and start to put energy and time behind your heart’s desire
There is a time in our life when we say "ENOUGH,I am tired of looking for love." Make the change!
Have you released the past pain created by relationships that have ended?
Have you let go of the ones who have hurt you, abandoned you or disappointed you?
Look in the mirror and ask yourself these questions…
Was I or am I valued? Do I value myself?
Was I or am I respected? Do I respect myself?
Who makes me feel unloved or not good about myself? Do I feel love in my heart?
It is more productive to approach a problem saying what can I do to fix it, than who do I blame
So often when we have are having difficulties, we view the problem and the solution and something that is outside of ourselves. This is particularly true in the area of relationships where we hear “If only he would” or “If only she wouldn’t”.
On our website to help people who live with an alcoholic we have a program laid out. Unfortunately most of the members come to find that one nugget that will make him, or her, stop drinking and then life can be wonderful. We call it the looking for the
It's a new year and time to think about positive changes.
For many of us, it is easy to have a goal and then get so busy in our lives we forget about it. In many organizations, a great plan is developed and then it sits on the shelf because the day-to-day functioning consumes all the time and focus of the employees. Certified Professional Coaches are aware that this is a barrier for clients. When clients are asked what could hold them back, they will often say “me” or “procrastination” or “laziness” as the barriers to success.
Make happiness a priority in the New Year. It's all about making choices and enjoying the journey.
One of the regrets of the dying is that they wish they'd allowed themselves to be happier, realizing, finally, that happiness is a choice. I hate to be morbid, but it's something to think about. Life is short. Here are a few things you might consider for more happiness in the New Year.
Don't be dogged by the ghost of Christmas past. Bring new life to the New Year post-divorce.
You know how people and their dogs often look alike? Sometimes they even seem to have the same personality. It can be that way with spouses as well. Live together long enough and before you know it you eat the same food, dress the same way and do the same things. It's easy to lose yourself in the relationship, subjugating your wants and needs in the name of peace and harmony. I'm not saying that's a bad thing.
There's a simple solution that will empower you and give you your confidence back.
Do you ever feel boxed-in, stuck, anxious or agitated? Do you think, "What's going on is not okay. This isn't what I signed up for, not what I was expecting, not how I want to spend my time. Get me out of here!"
You just have to understand the key to attracting someone who is worthy of your love.
Ladies, it's time to stop worrying about what you said or didn't say, what you did or didn't do, or any of those other regrets you have when you feel like things aren't going well. It doesn't matter. None of those things really matter.
They are of no significance in the realm where the kind of attraction we're seeking takes place, where the true seeds of love are sown.
Sometimes it takes a pet to remind us of who we are and to teach us we're loved, no matter what.
Riding my 3-wheeler on a Sunday morning bike ride with David, we pedaled a mile to get donuts (a reward for exercising). We pass by a huge grassy field on our route and paused to watch a man throwing a ball to his dog. A golden retriever, she looked to be a mature animal, but what do I know about dogs.
Sometimes it takes a pet to remind us of who we are and to teach us we're loved, no matter what.
Riding my 3-wheeler on a Sunday morning bike ride with David, we pedaled a mile to get donuts (a reward for exercising). We pass by a huge grassy field on our route and paused to watch a man throwing a ball to his dog. A golden retriever, she looked to be a mature animal, but what do I know about dogs.
We are always transitioning from one thing or another. Why not own that process of transition...?
Its always the case, life happens and all of sudden we are transitioning from something...again. Here are 5 things to remember as you move through transitions:
1) You are not alone in this transition process. Ask yourself:
Who are those in your support network? (Family, Friends, etc.)
What can you do to put yourself 'out there'? (Activity groups, Sports/Fitness, Classes)
2) Envision what you want to become from what you learned. Reflect on:
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