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The Sucker Punch
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The Sucker Punch

They come out of nowhere.  And we are never prepared for them. I call them sucker punches.  Divorce sucker punches; or the moments that unexpectedly take our breath away.  You know what I am talking about, because we all experience them.  They are waves of sadness, loss, loneliness and grief that are triggered by something completely unexpected. 

How To Move On From Your Divorce [EXPERT]
Don't let your divorce dictate the rest of your life!
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How To Move On From Your Divorce

Oh my god ... What happened? How did such devotion, harmony and bliss turn into disgust, bitterness and anger? Can you ever again look at this person the way you used to? Can you ever go back to the way it was? Has all this time together been wasted?

I'm Still In Love With My Ex [VIDEO]
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I'm Still In Love With My Ex

It's been a while since you two broke up ... well, really, he broke up with you, and you're still feeling heartbroken and confused. And yet, you can't get over him. You've become obsessed with replaying the breakup in your head, and wondering what went so wrong. But you know one thing for sure: you want him back.

How Strong Is Your Love Vibe?
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How Strong Is Your Love Vibe?

"Is there a break up in your past that was hard to get over?" "No, I'm fine. I make it a point to never have regrets and I just put them behind me." said the beautiful still-single-at-40 attorney sharply. I could tell she was a little annoyed. "I see." I said. "How many breakups are behind you?" "Six, but what does that have to do with my Love Magnet." "Let me show you," I said to her gently. (Want to peek over my shoulder and listen in?)

Rebound Relationships: They Can Be Good!
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Rebound Relationships: They Can Be Good!

Behind the barricaded doors of a study room in our dorm, The Hippie Pre-med Guitarist (HPG) and I were locked in a frenzied embrace. I’m not sure either of us would have predicted that this moment would happen when we each woke up that morning, but it was becoming more and more apparent over the increasing time we’d been spending together that our friendship was becoming more electric. At that moment, cradled in his arms, I pulled away and breathlessly confessed:

Why Is My Ex Still Calling Me?
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Why Is My Ex Still Calling Me?

Dear Dr. Romance: I was dating this guy for about 2 years. During the time that we were together we had some good times and bad. For one he was cheating on me with another girl then we got back together. During that time we worked hard to make the relationship work then I found out that he was sleeping with someone else. When I found this out, I finally left him alone.

How To Move Past A Breakup
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How To Move Past A Breakup

Did you recently break-up with a boyfriend or girlfriend? Were you hoping for a clean break, but instead it has been anything but clean, because after all you had time and your heart invested in the relationship? Did you know that men and women respond differently after a break up? Mars Venus believes men, generally speaking, jump into their next relationship, typically before they’ve resolved their feelings or found closure from their previous relationship.

Why Katie Holmes Filed For Divorce From Tom Cruise [EXPERT]
Holmes and Cruise were married for almost six years.
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Why Katie Holmes Filed For Divorce From Tom Cruise

Since the announcement last week, many people are speculating about what made Katie Holmes file for divorce from Tom Cruise. She appeared to have everything a girl could dream of: an amazing career, a devilishly handsome husband, a beautiful daughter and more money than a person could spend in a lifetime. What was Katie's deciding factor? Here are two possible answers.

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4 Questions To Ask Yourself Before A Breakup Or Divorce

Ending a low quality relationship can be associated with considerable improvement in our wellbeing. There is a point at which it makes good sense to get out of a bad relationship. This even holds true for children and divorce: Ending a highly conflicted marriage can be good for children in time (a good thing to remember when you're wondering if you should "stay together for the kids").

Why Unrequited Giving Doesn't Keep a Relationship Together
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Why Unrequited Giving Doesn't Keep a Relationship Together

Many people are “relentless” givers. They give and give to another and when it is not appreciated, the giver becomes upset and indignant. How can you treat me like this after all I’ve done for you? Are you someone who goes into relationship after relationship giving and giving and receiving nothing, not even appreciation, in return?  Do you always find yourself saying,  “I’m such a good person. I’m so generous.

When The Person You Love Doesn't Love You
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When The Person You Love Doesn't Love You

It’s hard but it happens. And it hurts. You love someone who may have loved you once upon a time; or You love someone who acted like there was a possibility of love in return, but now there’s not; or You love someone who simply doesn’t feel the same way and isn’t going to feel the same way, ever; or

"Should We Make Up?"
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"Should We Make Up?"

Kristin and Mike have had another huge and explosive fight. Both were irritable and had just ended long weeks at their jobs. A disagreement between them escalated into name calling, shouting and even things being thrown-- a glass was hurled at the wall in rage. Mike threw a few of his things in a bag and said he was going to move out. He told her that he is done with her and is going to his brother's house. After that, he stormed out the door.

3 Questions To Ask Before Getting Back With An Ex [EXPERT]
Does it make sense to put the pieces back together?
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3 Questions To Ask Before Getting Back With An Ex

For one reason or another, your relationship ended and like many people, you want him or her back. You want to get who you had back and you've got a good idea of how to accomplish this monumental task. Of course, the relevant question here should be "Should you try to get your ex back?" There are good reasons and there are bad reasons to get back together with someone. It's all about examining the cause of the breakup and the reasons behind your current urge to get back together with him or her.

"I Thought I Was Over Him!"
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"I Thought I Was Over Him!"

When a love relationship or marriage ends you might experience a broken heart. Even if the breakup was your idea and it seemed to be for the “best,” you could still be left feeling empty or grieving. At a time like this, you cope as best you can with your intense emotions and-- hopefully-- allow yourself to heal and move on with your life. But what an unpleasant surprise when you think that you're “over” the breakup only to be triggered and then realize that you're actually not!