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Meet Nufree, the next generation in hair removal.

Ladies, It's Time To Ditch Your Brazilian Wax

Nufree "wax" is the next generation of hair removal... for starters, it's not actually wax.

Many of my friends get Brazilian waxes and swear by them, but because I have sensitive skin, I've been hesitant to try one. After reading about the Nufree system, however, I decided to put my money where my bikini line is and try it out.

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Uh ... that would be a NO.

Dating Horror Story: He Wanted To Watch Me Get A Brazilian Wax

Did he just want to see me writhing in pain?

About two months into my relationship with B, he started sharing his desire to see me get a Brazilian wax. Of course, this was never going to happen. Not only are guests not welcome in the waxing room, but I wasn't about to have anyone outside of my beloved waxer see me writhe in such pain as I did everything within my power not to scream out something bizarre or obscene.

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Prep yourself to look sexy on vacation with this quick, efficient beauty routine.

4 Pre-Vacation Beauty Rituals For A Sexy Getaway

Take care of the essentials before you bask in the glory of doing absolutely nothing.

Whether you're single or with your partner, when you're on the way to a much-deserved vacation from work, the last thing you want to think is stuff like, "Dammit, I wish I'd remembered to wax my bikini zone." Luckily for you, we've compiled a handy list of beauty rituals to take out the stress and pressure out of your precious sun-soaking days.

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No, not this type of hair removal, silly.

8 Sexy Summertime Hair-Removal Secrets

From shaving to waxing to at-home laser removal, a comprehensive guide to pulling those suckers out.

The reality of getting your body fuzz-free and beach-ready is this: It's an ongoing process and there can be an ouch factor. As a Cuban-born Jew with hair to spare, I should know. But after more than two decades of reporting on (and trying) the latest beauty products, here are my tried and true hair-removing favorites.

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When the panties come off ... the feathers come out?

Weird News: A Feather Pubic Hair Wig? Yes, Really.

First, Completely Bare spa introduced us to vajazzling. Now, it's feathers and fur on your crotch.

As far as the attractiveness of the Foxy Bikini and The Carnivale (the fox fur and the feather treatments, respectively) go, this writer has not enjoyed the opportunity to check them out close-up. However, one can imagine that it would be pretty funny to go through the awkward process of pulling someone's clothes off for the first time to be confronted with what looks like an animal either trying to enter or escape from a woman's babymaker.

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"KELLYCLARKSON!" This would hurt even more if he were getting more than his chest waxed.

Weird News: The Rise Of The "Boyzilian" (Or "Brozilian") Wax

Should men get rid of all of their pubic hair?

According to experts in the field, men are going in for more and more hair removal treatments at spas. At the center of this trade is a male version of the Brazilian wax, a wax that removes all pubic hair from a person's groin. The so-called "Boyzilian" (or as we call it, "Brozilian") may be inspired by porn, or just weird evolutionary shame.

Why Do People Have Pubic Hair?

Why Do People Have Pubic Hair?

Experts aren’t exactly sure why we have pubic hair, but there are a few theories which make sense.

Have you ever thought about why do humans have pubic hair? What is its purpose? It seems no one (at least under 30) is letting his or her bush sprout. Instead everyone is talking about what to do with their pubes. Should I shave them? Dye them? Trim them down to a runway strip? Experts aren’t exactly sure why we have pubic hair, but there are a few theories which seem to make a lot of sense.

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Should Your Man Pay For Your Bikini Wax?

If your man prefers a bikini wax as below-the-belt grooming, should he be the one to pay?

In The Hairpin's Ask a Dude column recently, an advice-seeker brought up this hairy situation: who should pay for your bikini wax? She thinks the man asking for it should, writing "I always think guys should be paying for the Brazilians if they want their ladies to have them. Is that insane?"

Sex talk at a mom's book club

Sex talk at a mom's book club

I was invited to a mom’s book club who were (bless them) reviewing my book, Till Sex Do Us Part: Make Your Married Sex Irresistible. It was a range of moms who had babies up to 20 year-old kids. Inevitably the conversation went to girl’s sexuality.

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Is The Male Brazilian Wax Completely Pointless?

Let's rethink some of this manscaping business.

Over the last couple of decades, Americans have been grooming more and more. I'm guessing that skimpier outfits have led women to remove more hair. And, somewhere along they way, us dudes were convinced that we needed to have hair removed, so we agreed to some waxing. But manscaping has possibly spun out of control with the male Brazilian wax. Is this something that we really need?

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Vattoos: The New Vajazzling?

If you're already bored with vajazzling, try vattoos on for size.

The spa geniuses have come up with a new way to pretty up our lady parts and empty our wallets—vattoos! If your logic computes that must mean a combination of vaginas and tattoos, then congratulations, you're pretty smart. However, understand these tattoos are (thankfully) painted on and are a good couple of inches above your actual vagina (thankfully again).