Last month during an intimate girls' night in, I publicly posed the question that many overweight women wonder but never say aloud: "Is someone only going to marry me to get US citizenship?" I don't mean to knock cross-cultural love, but the fear I'd always had confronted me a few days before. A woman I knew, a good-looking gal with a great job and also about a hundred excess pounds, just got engaged to a weird-looking guy who I don't think speaks English. And, apparently, my fears are pretty commonplace among bigger gals.
Women are plagued by physical imperfections or a negative body image that go virtually unnoticed by the object of their affection. Is it possible for us to find beauty in our flaws? "Many women swagger confidently through business meetings and cocktail parties. But once they shed the armor of Diane von Furstenberg and True Religion they become flustered schoolgirls, ashamed of everything from scars and birthmarks to stretch marks and small breasts. n an age when many women yearn for the airbrushed perfection of Beyoncé and Jennifer Aniston, it's easy to assume that men do, too."
Can sex be considered an expression of spirituality? Thomas Moore unravels truth about sexuality and religion, tying together the concept of body and soul. From ancient mythology to present day beliefs, sex has played an important role and evolved through time.
Sex is not the only wonderful, wordless way to communicate. Most people reserve touching for only five percent of the body but massage is a great way to create a sense of intimacy with your partner. Author of The New Sensual Massage, Gordon Inkeles, shares some tips.