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Is your marriage this hot? If not, amp up the passion!

4 Ways To Pump Up The Passion In Your Marriage

How do you stir up and keep passion alive? It starts with desire. You have to want it. You have to be deliberate about going after a passionate, intimate marriage, and be willing to do whatever it takes to reach that goal. Engaging your heart fully in the joyful pursuit of a passionate marriage is the first step toward attaining it. I've come up with four key ways to pump up the passion in any relationship. Share them with your spouse, and give them a shot. I think you'll be pleasantly surprised and rewarded by the outcome.

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Tip: Approach marriage counseling like you would a regular doctor's appointment.

"Marriage Counseling Is Not The Kiss Of Death"

Most people think of counseling as the kiss of death for relationships, but this couple opted to go for it anyway. And without that mindset. Now they're on the other side, and one wife is ready to share insights from their sessions with the shrink.

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Dating someone from your church can be great, if you navigate tricky waters correctly.

Why Won't Christian Men Date Women From Their Church? Part II

Last month I wrote an article about Christian dating from a man's perspective. I interviewed several single guys in Los Angeles and New York, ranging in age from 28 to 40. I asked how they felt about dating within their church community and their answers were rather surprising. Most had tried it, yet were left feeling disillusioned in the process. As a result, they had chosen to search for love some place else. Over the past month, I've received hundreds of comments from readers who related to the article and had insightful perspectives to add to the conversation. It became clear that there was more to say on this topic. Much more.

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Fertility calendars? The pill? Condoms? What method should you choose, if any?

Marriage & Birth Control: What's Right For Your Relationship?

So, you found the perfect guy, you settled down and you married him. Now what? Then comes a baby in a baby carriage, right? Well, only if you've had a long talk with your partner and agreed that kids are the next step for your relationship.

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How does marriage relate to memes? One writer is about to tell you.

Of Memes And Marriage: How These Internet Sensations Can Help You

Can memes have any power during marriage? In a word, yes. (Stay with me now.) According to Dr. Martin Seligman, who was a past president of the American Psychological Association, positive psychology can use memes to "flourish" relationships. To flourish in the psychological sense is to live life abundantly by actively cultivating positive connections.

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Want a strong bond? Jesus' lessons of love and sacrifice can be applied to relationships.

3 Powerful Marriage Lessons From Easter

We will soon be celebrating Easter. Many of us will be gathering with family and friends to remember Jesus' sacrifice on the cross, and the good news of Sunday morning. Leading up to that day, though, I'd like to reexamine the lessons. There is always something new to learn about Easter, especially when it comes to love. I see several practical marriage lessons in the death and resurrection of Jesus.

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Spring is the perfect time for a fresh take on old love.

Spring Cleaning: 5 Ways To Freshen Up Your Relationship

Spring is in the air, and many of us are in the mood to purge, clean, and start fresh. While you're cleaning out your closets, consider making these five changes in your love life if your relationship isn't as fulfilling as you wish it was.

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Why do romantic opportunities slip away? Maybe it's because you feel entitled to them.

Why You Should Stop Feeling Entitled To Romantic Love

It's not even that I thought a "hello" wouldn't be well-received. Watching his body language, he seemed open. His face was kind, and his demeanor friendly. So what held me back in those few seconds where I felt uncharacteristically ready to abandon my inherent shyness? For the longest time, I couldn't figure it out. But I think now I know what it was. It was a sense of entitlement.

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Many Christian women would love to meet Mr. Right at church. Why aren't the men on board?

Why Won't Christian Men Date Women Who Go To Their Church?

Think you're going to find The One at your home church, Christian ladies? Think again. "I've only gone out with a couple of girls at church, and I won't do it anymore," says Luke*, a 40-year-old Christian man living in Southern California. "At this point, I'm happily resigned to not ask a girl out at church ever again."

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Does Song of Solomon endorse birth control and premarital sex?

Guess What? There's A Pro-Birth Control Passage In The Bible

In the middle of this heated debate over birth control and religion, it's easy to get the impression that Christians are anti-birth control, and so is God for that matter. Yet, as a mom, a person of faith, a married lady and a birth control lover, I don't see it as so simple.