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love addiction

Best Of The Web: Love Addiction & Resentment

The 31-Day Love Life Makeover! Do bisexuals cheat more often? What is love addiction? Should we just give up on online dating? Young people are terrible at romantic relationships. Things you're allowed to do after a breakup. Serial monogamy in all it's glory. Getting past resentment. How to be friends with benefits. Getting over sexual jealousy. The bummer of having an allergy to semen. Having sex while she's menstruating. And why his sent drives her wild.

Alice Johnson

Should You Crowdsource Your Love Life?

We all like having a wise person guide us through our problems. But can a person we don't know really help us with relationship advice? Crowdsourcing is a great tool for determining if something is generally good but what it's not great at is nuance. Would you randomly ask strangers for love advice? Would you take it?

hiding money

30% Of Couples Engage In Financial Infidelity

Per a study conducted by Harris Interactive, 31% of couples (over 2,000 were polled) have committed financial perfidy. The findings were very interesting and two items in particular stuck out: 1) The most common shadiness was that 58% of people admit to hiding cash; and 2) 15% of respondents have hidden a banking account. It was also revealed that men and women were just as likely to hide money.


Best Of The Web: The New Zodiac & Talking Dirty

When is a Chewbacca impression acceptable? What do men want to hear in the bedroom? What would men change about sexuality, if wishes were fishes? What is Timmy Gordon up to with that lad mag? The physics of space sex. What the Zodiac mix up means to you. What to expect when dating a Capricorn. What every newly divorced person needs to know. How helpful dating studies really are. Surviving a vacation with your main squeeze. And the 31-Day Lovelife Makeover!

knee to the groin

Let's Consider Mangling Genitals To Be A Last Option

Floridians and Germans, we can all agree, do some weird things. Recently, they've both been up to venting their frustration via mangling male genitalia. At this point, we should consider any sort of assault to anyone's genitals as a last resort... particularly when it comes to relationship issues.

funeral home

Funeral Homes Now Hosting Weddings

Not everyone wants to go into debt for their wedding. And those same people don't want to necessarily get married in Vegas. That's when compromise comes in. Do you get married in the winter or on a non-Saturday? Or do you find a new venue. While you're trying a new venue you should consider a funeral home, it's like a church but slightly sadder.

no engagement ring

Brokenhearted Man Robbed Of Engagement Ring

A man suffered the double indignity of being dumped by his fiancée, and then robbed by a con artist. Pile onto that the third indignity of being maced and it made for a really terrible several months. I suppose Craigslist is a crapshoot.

you and your doggie

It's Your Dog, Not "Our" Dog

A dog can be a girl's best friend. Unfortunately, that dog may not be her boyfriend's best friend. How should you introduce a new guy to your pet? And should you get a pet without running it by your partner?

new year's resolution

Best Of The Web: Resolutions & Passes

50 new year's resolutions for the engaged dude. Great activities for couples. When should you and your new lover have the sex. The downside of drunk dating. Ten dating commandments for women. Doing the opposite of romantic comedies. What would happen if you gave your guy permission for a one-night stand? An awful, awful Christmas present. The golden ration applied to dating. Exploring foot fetishes. What not to say to an upset partner.