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4 Ways To Let A Guy Know You Want Him To Kiss You

You couldn’t have asked for a better date. He chose a good outfit. He opened the door for you. He was funny and charming. He picked up the check. He walked you to your car or subway stop. You’re pretty sure he wants to kiss you, but he looks pretty nervous. Here are four ways you can help him muster up the nerve to take the plunge:


20 Things Women Should Do Before Marriage

With 11 days left until my wedding, the final countdown is in effect. Among the dozens of little things left on my to-do list, I've been thinking a lot about the things crossed off my to-do list long before I met my husband to-be—things that have made me a well-rounded, experienced woman ready for a lifetime commitment to another person. After the jump, 20 things every woman should cross off her list before getting married.

Dating A Golddigger

Dating A Golddigger

Six months ago, I was laid off from a job I loved and a salary I really loved. I left with a nice little pile of severance and had accumulated a substantial 401K. But I was single. It makes a difference, it turns out.

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7 Tips For Living With The Unemployed

The economy is supposedly in recovery, but layoffs are still prominent in virtually every industry. Many more people than usual can relate to a phenomenon usually restricted to the over-60 set: living with an unemployed spouse.

Divorce And Viagra Cause Middle-Aged STI Jump

Divorce And Viagra Cause Middle-Aged STI Jump

According to the GUM (general-urinary medicine) clinics and Dr Christian Jessen, the sexual health expert and director of the Better2Know clinics, in the past five years almost all STI's have experienced a massive jump among the middle-aged divorced set in Great Britain.

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Need Love Advice? Ask YourTango

The common denominator between your Aunt Sue, your dentist and that zany, reclusive guy at your office? Love. Relationships and love. We're hard-pressed to find humans who can't relate to having had a crush, a broken heart or, if they're lucky, a lifelong love affair. And therein lies the beauty of YourTango (we admit: we're biased, but can you argue with us?)—we want our readers to live their best possible love lives.


The Power Of Couples Massage

We were once pulled into a cab, on the fly, and told by a boyfriend that we were going to a surprise place. Turns out it was a basement spot in New York City's China Town where 30-minute reflexology foot massages were ordered up. It was our experience with reflexology and it was heavenly. Indeed, on the scale of most-romantic-things-a-boyfriend's-ever-done we'd have to say this ranks among the very highest. Shocked? You shouldn't be. More than red roses, a massage or surprise trip to the masseuse is one of the most romantic, caring gestures a loving partner can make. We uncovered this handy description of 12 popular massage types at the Huffington Post where you can beef up on your massage smarts (from Shaitsu to Thai to Rolfing). It's Friday and the week is done. We'd say your loved ones deserves a massage...tonight!

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Best of YourTango: Technofile Edition

Recently, we've been noticing our intense love of technology. Really, however, would you expect anything less from a website? But from Facebook profiles to blackberry messenger, we really like technology. And this week, YourTango really showed it. From tips on how to begin flirting via text to how two people with the same name hooked up over Facebook, it's been a high tech week. However, in case you were too updating your address book to notice, here's this week's best from YourTango.

Circumicised Men May Be Better In Bed

Circumicised Men May Be Better In Bed

After a recent study in Uganda, 455 women were polled and 40% reported that sex was more satisfying after their husbands/boyfriends were circumcised. Circumcision also is thought to cut down on the transmission of HIV.