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Starting over after divorce is difficult, but you can do it!

Divorced? 5 Things Not To Say On A First Date

So many divorcees are angry about their situations, disappointed they haven't met someone, or resentful of their ex-husband's lives. Let it go. Don't start out on a brand new date simmering with pent-up rage. It's not fair to either of you. Relax and plan something that's going to be fun for the two of you to do.

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Sometimes, nice wins over naughty.

18 Things NOT To Buy Your Boyfriend For Christmas

Wow. I mean, wow. I'm not some kind of religious conservative nutjob, but last time I checked, Christmas was a peaceful holiday that's meant to be celebrated with your family. So when I saw this photo gallery of "18 WTF Christmas-Themed Sex Toys" on The Frisky, I rightly thought... WTF.

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Strong marriages can survive sexual betrayal.

Can Your Marriage Recover From An Affair?

For many, an affair is a deal-breaker. It's the end of the relationship, a sign that the spouses need to move on, and a black and white issue with little recourse. But in longer marriages, especially when kids are involved, infidelity doesn't have to end the marriage. Some marriages can recover.

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Looking to get pregnant? Watch where your guy puts his laptop.

Is The Internet Bad For Sperm?

Warning: What you're about to read is shocking. So shocking you may try to keep your guy away from his laptop for at least a week.

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Where to meet eligible bachelors this December.

Love Bytes: 8 Ways To Find A Date This Holiday Season

8 places to find a date this December. 5 reasons he's afraid of commitment. 9 TV shows with red-hot sex scenes. 10 ways to spend the holidays by yourself. How to date a friend's ex. 3 common sex problems. One woman's fight with sex addiction.

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Drunk Princess who falls asleep at the holiday party table turns men off.

Desperate Debbie & 9 More Women That Turn Men Off

Let the record reflect that just because men find said issues unattractive that does not mean we will not attempt to sleep with you. The two are not mutually exclusive; this is a very real disclaimer. First up is a personal favorite of mine...

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Matchmaker, matchmaker...

Angry Single Blogger: Lessons From My First Matchmaking Event

The art of matchmaking has been around since at least the 1600s. In a society where everyone is being pressured to pair off, for some, matchmaking services seem like the best way to find love. I had neither met a matchmaker nor attended a matchmaking event until recently.

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If you love someone, there is no excuse for cheating. Right?

What Guys Think Links: Can You Love Someone If You Cheat On Them?

If you love someone, there is no excuse for cheating on them... Right? What sex is really like after having a baby. How to get him to quit porn. Don't focus on your guy's shortcomings. What he really thinks after a first date. What happens when sex makes her say things she doesn't mean? If your guy is a tad immature, cut him some slack. Guess what, being a little juvenile, here and there, is a great trait in a man. Harrumph.