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Wife Handcuffs Husband During Dispute

Talk about a heated debate.

Police arrived to screaming and an unexpected site at a Fairfield, C.T. home where they had been called to hose down a domestic dispute. A woman had handcuffed herself to her husband while he slept in their bed, reports Jason Szep for Reuters.

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Natalie Portman & Brad Pitt To Co-Star In Rom Com

Portman and Pitt team up for the first time in a film based on a clever illustrated novel.

Variety reports that the two stars and their production companies have purchased the rights to Important Artifacts and Personal Property from the Collection of Lenore Doolan and Harold Morris, Including Books, Street Fashion, and Jewelry, which is a mock auction catalogue offering the mementos from a couple's failed love affair. Lenore and Harold's artsy, culture-filled relationship is chronicled through the black and white photographs and auction lot descriptions of handwritten notes, salt shakers, jars of quarters, and more than 300 other objects that took on significance during the couple's time together.

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Love Bytes: When Enough Is Enough

Twittering your way to a breakup, lending money to a lover and dining with prostitutes.

Love Bytes: three must click sex, dating and relationship links. Twittering your way to a breakup, lending money to a lover and dining with prostitutes.

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Can You Survive A Vacation Together?

Travel tips for couples booked on a romantic getaway.

Agreeing on what constitutes as relaxation and what kind of vacation makes both people happy are signs that a couple is ready to travel together without risking the relationship.

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How To Avoid Attracting "Your Ex: The Sequel"

5 tips for successfully dating after divorce.

There's nothing like a fresh start — knowing in your heart that you're ready to move past the divorce and date again. Before that little black dress comes out of the closet, ask yourself: Do I know how to make a better choice this time around?

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She Wants Sex, He Doesn't

Is it possible to make it work with a sexless guy?

I've dated several guys who, from what I can tell, have a take it or leave it attitude toward sex, with an emphasis on leaving it. Why, you may ask, did I, someone who writes about sex almost every day, wind up with them? I don't really know, but I did. And the worst part about it is not the physical withdrawal; I'm not the kind of girl who needs to do it every day (though that would be nice). The worst part is the feeling of rejection that cuts really, really close to home. When I experience that, it's like taking all the fears I have about my attractiveness and boiling them into one pointed barb: you're not pretty/sexy/fun/cool/hot/exciting enough to f**k.

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3 Things That Destroy Love

Avoid these relationship pitfalls to keep your love from crumbling.

Let's face it: Some days even the best of relationships are hard work. So learning how to mend hurts and tear down walls of conflict is part and parcel to keeping a healthy and vibrant relationship going strong. Here, Bill Ferguson fills us in on three love pitfalls to avoid.

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How To Make Love Last

A little bit of science and some other insights.

A new study published in the March issue of the Review of General Psychology found that a surprisingly high number of long-term couples, including some who had been married over 20 years, reported that they still felt deeply in love with their partners. The researchers draw a distinction between romantic love and passionate love. "Romantic love," the researchers say, "has the same intensity, engagement and sexual chemistry as passionate love has, but without the obsession. Passionate love, on the other hand, includes feelings of uncertainty and anxiety." Well, if that’s the case, I’ll take romance over passion any day. According to the researchers, there are some "tricks" to making that romantic kind of love endure for the long-term.

Steve Harvey Advises Ladies To Think Like Men

Steve Harvey Advises Ladies To Think Like Men

Steve Harvey is the latest comedian to write a relationship book for women. A million times a charm?

Much in the same vain as our beloved He's Just Not That Into You, comedian Steve Harvey—like comedian Greg Behrendt—sets out to enlighten ladies with more straight talk about men. He's penned his first relationship book, Act Like A Lady, Think Like A Man, and not surprisingly this is another ode to the sex-crazed simplicity of guys and how women need to stop tolerating their B.S.

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Dating Weary? How A Matchmaker Can Help

Matchmaker Christie Nightingale tells us why matchmaking beats online dating.

What has Christie Nightingale learned from her decade of matchmaking? Who turns to her? What do they get from a matchmaker that they don't get elsewhere? And what do her clients have to teach the rest of us about love?