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'The Bachelor' Finale Recap: Why Ben Flajnik Is A Sleaze Bag
Ben Flajnik, you're a douche.

'The Bachelor' Finale Recap: Why Ben Flajnik Is A Sleaze Bag

Ben Flajnik is clearly not using his head (at least not the one that houses the brain). Had he been, he might have made a different choice a long time ago. Flajnik chose Courtney, the model everyone loved to hate. She is gorgeous, sexy, wild, and strange. And clearly she loves him. But why? We may never know the answer.

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How to get your flirt on in Austin.

Single At South By Southwest? Try These SXSW Pickup Lines

Techies, film makers and music fanatics alike have flocked to Austin for the annual South by Southwest (SXWS) Film, Interactive and Music Festival. Take it from me, a twentysomething online editor: The streets are flooded with single geeky guys from all corners of country. If your type is nerdy like mine is, then you're in luck, but only if you know how turn networking events—full of freebies and free-flowing, high-proof beverages, in the case of SXSW—into the singles scene you're really after.

Why Do Guys Love Lube?
Why do guys love lube?

Why Do Guys Love Lube?

A little bit of lube can go a long way towards making your sexual experience longer, more enjoyable and eons more comfortable. No wonder men love it.

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YourTango is going to Austin for South by Southwest!

YourTango @ #SXSW TONIGHT: Love In The Social Media Age

A recent study found that two-thirds of divorce cases have used evidence from Facebook. Teenagers and 20-somethings are sexting with abandon. And, one out of eight married couples says they met online. What do all of these recent technological advancements mean for love? Tune in to hear thoughts from our CEO Andrea Miller and editor Tom Miller at South By Southwest tonight, from 7:30 to 8:30 p.m. EST.

Coffee With A Side Of Sex Appeal
Baristas in bikinis?

Coffee With A Side Of Sex Appeal?

Baristas in bikinis? Here, it's just business as usual. Women dressed in swimsuits and lingerie are serving up coffee at Java Girls, a shop in Orlando, Fla., that's been grabbing the attention of locals since it opened in November, the Orlando Sentinel reports.

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Which trends are you rocking on date night? Our editor Natalie loves bright green!

Contest: What Are You Wearing For Date Night This Spring?

We love the fun Spring 2012 fashion forecast, which includes bold colors, pastels, metallics, flirty prints, peplums (think Michelle Williams' Oscar dress) and eye-catching accessories. But, translating the runway trends to a hot date night outfit takes skill. What do you think—do you have what it takes? Show us what you got and enter our Spring Fashions For Date Night contest!

Jennifer Westfeldt and Adam Scott in 'Friends With Kids.'
Jennifer Westfeldt and Adam Scott in 'Friends With Kids.'

Would You Rather Have A Baby With Your Best Friend Or Your Lover?

Friends With Kids opens with a hushed phone call in the middle of the night from Julie (Jennifer Westfeldt) to Jason (Adam Scott). She asks him a strange question about how he'd prefer to die, presenting two options. Jason mulls it over and chooses one. And then the camera reveals a scantily clad woman sleeping next to him, his flavor of the month. "I think I'm going to break up with her soon," Jason confesses.

basketball
Ready to deal with your guy's basketball obsession?

What Guys Think Links: Ready For March Madness?

It's less than a week to the world's greatest and most romantic holiday: St. Patrick's Day. The beer is green, the corned beef is hashed and the eyes are smiling. Ahhh, thanks for chasing out all them snakes, Pat. Not to mention... It's time to make your March Madness bracket, or ignore your guy for doing so.