There I was, a woman in the midst of a crumbling marriage and sex life. And then when my ex-husband and I finally decided to divorce, I came to the harsh reality. I was going back into the dating pool!
Orgasms can be mysterious, mind-blowing, lengthy, elusive or—as we just learned—hands-free. From Em & Lo comes the tale of a college freshman who attends a "How To Have A Genderless Orgasm" workshop in lieu of his art history class. Led by Barbara Carrellas, author of Urban Tantra: Sacred Sex for the Twenty-first Century, the students go through breathing, muscle-contracting and chakra balancing exercises to reach climax.
OK, so I’m not a mother in the sense that I pushed kids out of my hoo ha, but I still think I’m a mother after all. Granted, some people would agree I’m a mother, but would then add an unfortunate expletive after that. Those people suck. Duh.
Everyone knows that nightstand drawers are sacrosanct. They’re for your unmentionables. I don’t mean panties; I mean things you need next to the bed for a reason. Ok, fine; they’re for sex stuff.
We’re all so busy with life and work (and their dramas), sometimes weeks and months go by between reading actual books. It’s hard to motivate ourselves when mindless internet browsing feels so much easier and less mind-consuming. But what if reading a book can actually help us fix our love dramas? Great reason to turn that page!
Oldest children are the best kind of children. (But, of course, I'm biased because I'm an oldest child myself - of five!) If you have the good fortune of loving/dating/marrying/sexing one of us, congrats to you, good sir! You're in for a fun ride. Just buckle your seat belt first and pay attention to these safety instructions first, will ya?
I've heard depression described as walking towards a sunset. You can see the light ahead of you, but even when you're basking in the warmth of the light, you're always aware that the darkness isn't more than a heartbeat away. That sounds pretty accurate, but what makes depression so hard for those on the outside -- and even those on the inside -- to understand, is that being depressed and being happy aren't always mutually exclusive.
As many singles have found out, beer goggles can be a terrible thing. You can go from thinking someone is the ugliest thing in the world to thinking they’re the hottest thing coming down the street, only after a couple drinks. Far too many times I thought I was going home with someone who looked like Ryan Gosling only to end up waking up next to someone who was on-par with a troll in the looks territory. Alcohol, man; it definitely plays some dirty, rotten tricks.
We go to the gym to look and feel our best ― all of which totally translates to better sex. Turns out though, the classes we choose while working out can have direct impact on our love lives! Take these classes into consideration next time you are trying out new group fitness classes. Your lover will thank you! Photo: WeHeartIt
So what does a male orgasm feel like? Do orgasms differ drastically between the sexes? We take stock of what we know and ask four men for the inside scoop on their experience of the Big O.