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If this picture makes you smile in adoration, your biological clock is ticking, lady.

11 Signs Your Biological Clock Is Ticking

Warning signs that you can't wait to procreate. As if you didn't already know.

When did you become aware of the slow steady beep of your biological clock? Here are some warning signs that your biological clock may be blaring...

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Baby time? Most women overestimate their fertility.

Most Women Flunk "Fertility Math": Do You Know Your Chances?

My pregnancy chances may not be high when I'm older, but I'd rather take them than make a mistake.

We live in a world where women conceiving older and older is becoming the norm. Salma Hayek had a baby girl at 41 and Holly Hunter had twin boys at 47 years old — a trend that is giving women in their 30's who have put having children off a sigh of relief. However, a recent study shows that women do not truly understand just how slippery the fertility slope really is.

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Experts suggest men over 35 freeze their sperm: It's cheaper and easier than egg freezing.

Surprise! Men Have Ticking Biological Clocks, Too

Studies say men also get less fertile after age 35. So there's no "eternal fatherhood," fellas.

Women aren't the only ones who stress about their biological clock — men face similar anxieties over becoming older dads, reports Sarah Wildman. Some may even turn to sperm freezing.

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'Baby Fever' Is A Real Scientific Phenomenon

Both men and women experience it.

If the sight of an adorable infant sends your biological clock into a frenzy, you're likely experiencing what researchers are calling "baby fever."

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At What Age Does Wanting A Baby Become A Dating Deal-Breaker?

How old will I be when I decide I want kids? And will my boyfriend wait for me?

A few weeks ago, my boyfriend and I discussed the issue that could eventually end our relationship. One of us wants a baby someday, and the other isn't so sure. My boyfriend knows he wants to be a dad. He's in his early thirties in New York City, which is like being 24 in any part of the country. Luckily, he's got decades of fertility ahead of him. The clock's not ticking yet. But it will. My clock's digital. Or maybe I can't tell time. All I know is that I don't know if I want kids. I'm great with them. I've wondered what it would be like to have a child with a few men I've dated. Yet I feel that many people have children out of a sense of obligation or for selfish reasons. I wouldn't consider it settling to be the cool aunt, instead of a mom.

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Hitting The Snooze Button On Your Biological Clock

This woman is in no rush for babies, and is okay with the tick of her biological clock.

I’m smack in the middle of my 30s and recently married. For some childless women my age, this is tick-tick-tick time. However, while other women may be intimately in touch with their ovulation cycles, I’m in no hurry to have kids now, if ever. My old man and I have talked about it, but we’re both horrified by how much our lives would have to change—not to mention how big a pain in the ass kids are for, oh, say, 18 years.

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Why We Become Sex Crazed At Age 27

A new fertility study explains why women are sex crazed after age 27.

Reaching our mid-30s can be fabulous. That's something we learned from watching our girls in Sex and The City. Except, when our birthday finally dawns on us and we start to look at our future and think about how quickly this age crept up on us and how quickly the next year will, too. What often crowds our minds at this age are our biological clocks. By 30 and continuing into our 40s, all we can hear is a faint, imaginary murmur from our anxious tubes: tick-tock, tick-tock. It's this "sound" that, according to new research from the University of Texas Austin, that drives us to "capitalize on our remaining childbearing years." In layman's terms, we have sex and lots of it.

Baby Bytes: Mama Drama

Baby Bytes: Mama Drama

Child birth isn't easy, but here are some links to show the hardship doesn't end there.

Here at LoveMom, we bring you the love. Our weekly Baby Bytes bring you everything else. Here are this week's 6 must-click mom links.

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5 Things Men Don't Like About Single Women

Single women share certain preferences—but men hate some of the very things we love.

Although remarkably little ink in men's magazines is devoted to making over women or determining whether oft-cited flaws are terminal, guys have their own (mental) list of women's undateable traits. Men from around the country put these at the top.

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What If Mr. Right Doesn't Exist?

One woman wonders if her sister's prince will ever come. Is Mr. Right out there?

You’re almost 35 now and want nothing more than a flesh-and-blood child of your own with a man you love—more than you wanted that master’s degree, that great job you have, that beautiful house you bought with your own money or that strong, athletic body you worked so hard to get back after he broke your heart the last time and ran off with someone else.

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Why Your 20-Something Boyfriend Wants A Baby

Five reasons men in their 20's may want children as much as women.

Twentysomething guys are often thought of to be party- and booty-obsessed overgrown babies, but a new study reveals that most of them actually covet fatherhood! Biological clocks, stability and good, old-fashioned love are some of the reasons motivating men to have kids.