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Infidelity And Your Finances
Don't have a pre-nup? It's not too late.
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Cheating & Your Finances: What You Need To Know

Marriage and money is a tough situation to navigate. But when infidelity gets thrown into the mix, things become even stickier. A pre-nup is a great tool to have, but what if you're caught off guard? Here's how to keep everything in balance when life throws you a curveball.

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Get Skinny, Tan and Rich for FREE this Summer!

Like my blogs? You'll love this! My FREE summer reading offer...my first book, Skinny, Tan, and Rich: Unveiling the Myth, FREE for Your Tango readers! I entered the world ahead of the game: the gifts were a wealthy family, a gorgeous gene pool, and a considerable talent for making myself into what other people wanted me to be. But things were not always what they seemed. I survived rape, drugs, betrayal and more to find my true self, and so can you!

Is An Affair Ever Forgivable?
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Is An Affair Ever Forgivable?

Affairs are very difficult for many spouses to handle. They wonder how their partner could hurt them and how they will recover from this betrayal. However, is it possible that an affair is justified? Dr. Tammy Nelson presents a case where that may just be so.

The Truth About Lies
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The Truth About Lies

As a couples therapist, one situation I’m confronted with often is when a relationship is shaken up by the discovery of a lie. It’s not always infidelity, but that is a classic example. In that first session with a couple who sees me after the discovery of an affair, both partners usually agree on what the problem is – one partner wronged the other, and that person typically sits in my office sheepishly, overcome by guilt, shame, and a vague sense of relief that the truth is finally out.

Betrayal: The Fourth Dwarf of Smallness
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Betrayal: The Fourth Dwarf of Smallness

For the past few weeks, I’ve been writing about what I call the Seven Dwarves of Smallness. These little gremlins in your subconscious mind conspire to keep you small. They tell you all sorts of reasons why you can’t have, be, and do what you really want. They’re full of lies, but we believe them. They are the sons and daughters of FEAR: False Evidence Appearing Real.

Trust After Infidelity: Is It Possible? [VIDEO]
Can your relationship survive an affair?
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Trust After Infidelity: Is It Possible?

Infidelity — sexual, emotional, or, heaven forbid, both — can really tear a relationship apart. After all, once your partner commits the ultimate betrayal, how can you ever trust him/her again?

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Strong marriages can survive sexual betrayal.
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Can Your Marriage Recover From An Affair?

For many, an affair is a deal-breaker. It's the end of the relationship, a sign that the spouses need to move on, and a black and white issue with little recourse. But in longer marriages, especially when kids are involved, infidelity doesn't have to end the marriage. Some marriages can recover.

Is It Possible To Overcome Betrayal?
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Is It Possible To Overcome Betrayal?

We believe it's possible to come out of the other side better and stronger as a couple, however, dramatic changes need to happen in order for the relationship to survive. This is not something that can change quickly or without effort. There’s a shift that must take place for both parties to rectify and move on — together.

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5 Ways To Move Beyond An Affair

Dealing with betrayal in your marriage is not easy but it is definitely possible. Keep in mind that divorce is not always the solution to the problem. You need to find out what has led to the infidelity in your marriage and get the help needed to recover from the trauma. Let's look at some of the steps you can take to move beyond the affair and get your marriage back on track!

Don’t Get Burnt: Maybe the Grass isn’t Greener
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Don’t Get Burnt: Maybe the Grass isn’t Greener

Lately #FirstLady has been hearing from her ex’s that I was the one they seen themselves eventually marrying. Do these men really think that this is some type of compliment. Just think about it, he has just told me that I was some type of layaway plan that he was going to get back too! This got me thinking about if I was on layaway then where have you been shopping, while you were making your way back.

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What Is Love Without Loyalty? Why Devotion Trumps Passion

Is loyalty love's friend or its enemy? Does love bring us together or rip us apart? We face what Love in the Western World author Denis De Rougemont called "the passion-fidelity dilemma." We want love that lasts, but we also want passionate intensity, and we suspect that we will at some point have to choose which love is worth having, the epic but brief romance, or the companionship that goes the distance. We suspect that passion is like ripe peaches -- short-lived, but much to be preferred over fruit canned in cloying syrup. Love isn't shelf-stable.