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For My Single Friends

For My Single Friends

Being single isn't all that bad!

Single women are often tricked by the media and the world around them that relationships and love are supposed to come easily, resulting in some confusion as to why they're still single. Our expert advises you not to be fooled and the truth about being single.

Off--The-Clock

Off--The-Clock

Is your social the same as everyone else's? What to do when your life doesn't match up

“I’m late, I’m late, for a very important date.”  -The White Rabbit                    How do we determine the appropriate age to start dating, get married, have kids, and/or retire?  Bernice Neugarten (1976) suggested that human beings use a ‘social clock’ to define the cultural norms and expected social behaviors throughout the lifespan.  Differing from biological clocks that have a neural origin, social clock

Why "You Complete Me" Is Just Not Healthy

Why "You Complete Me" Is Just Not Healthy

While those three words "You Complete Me" are beautifully romantic, here's why they're not healthy

Ever since the mid 90's when the box office hit romantic comedy Jerry Maguire coined the phrase "You complete me," those three words have been bandied about by star struck lovers all over the world. And as much as I love the phrase and the romantic notions it evokes - the idea of two becoming one, the circle becoming complete, of two people so connected that they would be incomplete, broken, without the other - the truth is, well, it's just not healthy.

10 Reasons To Love Being Single [EXPERT]
You can enjoy being single!

10 Reasons To Love Being Single

Here are 10 reasons to embrace your single status and love your freedom!

Here are 10 reasons to embrace the fact that you are not in a relationship and love your single life.

Single? 5 Ways To Survive Wedding Season [EXPERT]
No plus-one? Don't fret.

Single? 5 Ways To Survive Wedding Season

Just because you haven't met your Prince Charming, don't let wedding season get you down!

All year long you've placed the foil-lined invitation envelopes with your bare ring finger under a fridge magnet. Now, at last the time is upon you — it's officially wedding season. If all your friends are heading down the aisle this summer, you're going to need a single gal's game plan. Here's a survival guide to get you through feeling happy and fulfilled in spite of all the happily ever after around you.

Women don't need men to be happy

Women don't need men to be happy

Why do you need a man to make you happy? Just having that girl time is sufficient enough.

BY Hope Kumor You dress in your sexiest outfit to go out with your girls for the night. It's ladies night at a nearby club and you examine yourself in the mirror to check your hair and makeup before you leave for your best friend's house. Everything looks perfect and you’re beaming with confidence. Meanwhile, there are girls heading out with their boyfriends. But, that doesn't matter. You don't need a man to be happy. Besides, do you really want to deal with arguments, the phone calls, the presents, the constant nagging?

Valentine's Day Ideas For Singles
Valentine's Day ideas for single gals.

7 Perfect Valentine's Day Ideas For Singles

Valentine's Day ideas for singles. Hint: Chocolate binges and pity fests are not on the list!

Seven ideas that treat V-Day not as glorification of romance, but as a celebration of love in general—love for yourself, your friends, your community and for the world. The ideas will even work for those who would prefer to be coupled up. So go forth and revel—no matter what your relationship status is.

Feeling Like The Last Single Girl On The Block?

Feeling Like The Last Single Girl On The Block?

Don’t let your insecurities about finding a mate lead you down the road to depression...

“How can someone like you still be single?” How many of you have heard that question at family gatherings, a party with friends, or during a work event leaving you with that feeling of being, “the last single girl on the block.” This question may lead you to ask other questions that become an internal dialogue, “If I am so wonderful, how come I’m still single?” or, “Why does my singleness matter to so many people?” Through working with my clients, I have found that the extent, to which you allow the

unhappy bridesmaid

Always A Bridesmaid, Never A Bride: Hidden Perks Of Pink Taffeta

Three reasons being the last of your friends to march down the aisle might not be such a bad thing.

Couples in the U.S. throw something like 2.5 million weddings each year, fueling a $40 billion industry. 40 billion! That's a lot of aunts, uncles and cousins doing the hokey pokey… and heck of a lot of taffeta. If the average wedding has four bridesmaids, that's 10 million of us a year doing the "left, together… right, together" down the aisle as one of our friends ties the knot with her one & only.

Let's Talk About Sex, Baby

Let's Talk About Sex, Baby

Survey Finds 4 in 5 Women Have Had "No Strings" Encounters

Here's the thing about sex: it's different for every woman. The way we think about it, talk about it, do it or choose not to do it is unique to pretty much every single one of us. Some girls are adamant about only having one partner their whole lives. Some of us see it as sacred, only to be shared within committed relationships, while others are more free and look at various partners as forms of sexual exploration or ways to get to know themselves. And, there are those of us who see it as just plain fun, no strings attached.

Go, Means --- Go.

Go, Means --- Go.

On the 19th of March, the moon was as close to the Earth as it has or will be for the next 18 years. A feat that most assuredly comes with cosmic strings attached. An astronomer predicted that the onset of this would cause the universe, or Lady Earth, as we know her to revolt. And she did.