Comment: so uh anyway... mistresses, cheating, open relationships and guilt are things that aren't often talked about. This author was sharing her story, letting readers read about something they may not often read about . I thought it was interesting. I didn't feel any need to judge. It's someone sharing her story. People cheat on other people all the time, but no one is allowed to talk about it without being shut down. Why are only people who do "good" things allowed to talk about their life?

Comment: I wonder if this woman was actually a 32DD. i'm a bra fitter and a 32D...and 32DD isn't actually that big and rarely looks out of proportion. 32DDD and above I'd understand wanting a breast reduction, but this seems weird to me. So many women are a much bigger cup size that they think. I've fitted women (and girls!) who are a 32 I ... THAT'S a need for a reduction.

Comment: women are visual too, stop making assumptions. Or maybe I'm just a man ( a gay man?) trapped in a woman's body. I like the lights on, I ogle men's naked bodies, I need it to get aroused. and do tell me, what exactly does CONFIDENCE look like? Since I've heard many men claim that trumps good looks. I have found the "inner beauty" really only comes out when you begin caring/loving about a person. I've had people (mainly guys, strangely) hate on my past boyfriends' looks, but to me, my boyfriends were the handsomest, sexiest thing I had ever seen. And their personality added to it, definitely. Some people also have that "je ne sais quoi," even when you find them otherwise unattractive. Humans are weird. Maybe it really is all about pheromones, over which we have no control.

Comment: I'm in my twenties and I'll show you a conversation.