Comment: Ok so me and Jesse are breaking technology barriers......Do Not fight with your partner via text or im......That has caused alot of out of hand fighting between us......We too have the habit of him being on his pc me being on mine.....So I guess we need to make special time too.....lmao we instant message each other from different rooms in the house.

Comment: i am strangely finding myself commenting on this not to criticize either way but because i am completely interested in obtaining a book !!!!!!!!!

Comment: wow this is sooooooooooo my flirting my stile way to go LOVE U ROFLMAO oh it hurts im laughing so hard

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Comment: Wow I guess al i can say on this is marriage changes things ALOT. Well in my experience anyways. My husband was a different person when we got married, and alomst as soon as he felt like i could handle the world he stopped doing everything. And i mean that literally. On the outside I look fine, on the inside i was crushed. And then when the lying began the trust became broken and the anger turned the love i had into something else. Now I just don't know anymore

Comment: well im in a similar situation. I met jesse years ago, and he basically will tell you he knew we would cross paths again and we did. We dated fr a couple more months and then boom we were married. And right now I am looking at moving out. I do not have the child issue, and I feel for you that you have to think about baby as well as everything you are going through. But I think with Jesse the thing that broke me was the lying because it was only like 2 weeks ago and ever since that point it seems like everything he does is just like something else to annoyme. I have gotten the i love you please dont go speech. I mean we have only been married for 5 months but for most of it i have been carrying us while he did absolutely nothing to even try to help and then when i got him about he elaborated a whole day of lies to cover his ass when i found out he wasnt out looking for work. And somewhere in my head if you can make a story like that and lie to e without hesitation a year from it will only get worse.

Comment: I do not know if it a male refusal to communicate or the male part of the brain shuts down and stops listening to their female counterparts. I try to talk to Jesse at home and that never works it always turns into a cry fest where nothing gets accomplished mostly because he has made me feel like everything that ever goes wrong is my fault or i started it. I end apologizing to stop the fighting because I can only take soo much at a time and i just want it to go away, of course that doesn't help either. But his communication tactic has become tell me what i want to hear i know its all bullshit so that only makes it worse. We are now at total communication breakdown. Communication, open honest communication plays such a big role in any relation ship.

Comment: I am not sure really how to feel about this article. I understand stress is serious, but coping is a treatment. To me this article is just another easy way out of your vows, and with the divorce rate what it is we don't need any extra reasoning. If your marriage is really that bad, yea reevaluate, but if its stressful maybe you just need to sit your partner down and be straight about it. Maybe your partner is stressed out too and it is manifesting itself differently. Usually problems in a marriage are not onesided. It took two to get you there and it will take you both to get you out. No, I am not going on my marriage experience so don't gear up to grab me on my marriage expertise, I am not basing this comment on my marriage. This more of an open ended thought based on the marriages I have seen good and bad, lasting and ending, and some of which are still in limbo. I just think that this stress factor can be seen on both parties and if you married this person it is worth a shot to give it a chance and attempt to work it out before just giving up, stress can be reduced and a little communication goes a long way !!!!

Comment: Wrong, It is the girl with the most confidence that gets the most attention you need to feel comfortable in your own skin....................